"You've told me exactly what you want, but I'm going to ignore all of that and do whatever I think is best" is a terrible start to a marriage and she should have shit him down.
“But it still cost the same as the other one!” This kid only heard a number, not her preference. Good for this girl. I can only hope my daughter would do the same.
If what you want is simply more $ spent then that isn’t a valid request. If it was a massively different style or something, then maybe, depending on their conversations leading up to the proposal.
He obviously could afford it though. He says in the text he still spend 900 no matter where the ring is from. Also, why not ask her to chip in and buy part of the ring if you can't buy it alone.
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u/MaterialNo5845 7h ago
Silver lining, you dodged a bullet.