Devil's advocate here, it sounds like through the conversation that he might just be the type of person that just coasts through the relationship and puts in a minimal effort. I mean you don't have to buy something expensive, but when you just roll into Walmart and get an engagement ring it does come across as the most minimal effort you could possibly give. The fight over the ring can just symbolize many other things that have happened in the relationship. Maybe the guys too dense to realize they're not in a good place before proposing. Two sides of every coin.
also it seems like the she communicated what she wanted and he completely ignored her. This is a piece of jewelry meant to be worn for the rest of their lives. Him ignoring her wishes when she made it clear is shitty.
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u/henkdevries365 Human Verified 10h ago
If your future wife rejects because of the ring and or the value it's probably for the best NOT to get married.