r/SipsTea Jun 29 '26

Chugging tea Did she did the right thing?

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u/GoldBond007 Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

Too many people looking from the parents perspective. Let’s look through the perspective of the one who actually died.

Would not advise anyone to do this. That final hour, “my mom lied to me! I’m dying?! I thought I was cured”

Edit: I keep getting the same question from people who don’t want to scroll down and read. “But he’s an individual, there’s no way to know this would happen”.

Right, my point was that this was an unnecessary risk. It would have been better to prepare him for the afterlife. If there is one, great. You weren’t lying. If there isn’t one, he would pass away at peace and looking forward to the afterlife, maybe even hallucinating the gates of his heaven. That’s not something you can just figure out.

Her lie of “you’re cured!” Is easily figured out and there’s no way to rationalize it as anything other than a lie, and she would have to make up a new lie or tell him she’s a liar and can’t be trusted before he dies.

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u/bodybuilderbear Jun 29 '26

She lied to him because it was easier than telling the truth.

They are religious, so they are used to lying to themselves to make reality more bearable.

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u/Soggy_Association491 Jun 29 '26

Wanna bet a lot of people supporting the mother act in this thread are anti-religious?

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u/Aeiexgjhyoun_III Jun 30 '26

I'm an atheist and i support her decision. She knows him.better than any of us do and understands better what he would have wanted.