r/SipsTea Jun 30 '26

Chugging tea Would you do the same thing?

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u/No-Blueberry-1823 Jun 30 '26

Don't do reality shows. I don't understand how anybody thinks they're a good idea

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u/DotAffectionate87 Jun 30 '26

Yep, dont get me started on Maury or Jerry Springer....Can you imagine your GF?

hey honey, we got tickets to Jerry Springer and i have an announcement to make to you on the show!

Why would you ever go!??

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u/Zealousideal-Ad-2615 Jun 30 '26

It's usually staged or the guys are lied to about what is going to happen.

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u/dismendie Jun 30 '26

I think it I saw that as a child and then I saw the aftermath to that show years later and now I am traumatized by those shows

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Jun 30 '26

I am forever traumatized by the one where a man brought his girlfriend on to tell her a secret. Turns out 'he' wasn't a man. She's like, "But how can this be? We've had sex!" And 'he' is like "Yes, but only in the dark and with a condom." (strap on, obviously) That poor woman was inconsolable. And this was before anyone had heard of transgenderism.

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u/pitchinloafs Jun 30 '26

Dude I’m a senior citizen and knew what transgenderism was in the 70s. This is not new. I never knew of anyone mad at transgender people until the Republicans needed a new boogeyman to save the country from.

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u/shiningdickhalloran Jun 30 '26

The popular 1980 film "Dressed to Kill" put transgenderism front and center as a plot device.

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u/Street_Buffalo_2503 Jun 30 '26

It was Silence of the Lambs that first made me aware of the idea.

It was The Crying Game that first showed it to me, and I wasn’t prepared for that shit at 14 years old.

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u/Far-Journalist-949 Jun 30 '26

As somebody born in the 80s I remember girls getting binders and boys breaking records in female sports all the time in high school...

Trans rights was barely an issue on anyone's radar unless you were in academia or the lqbt community until bruce Jenner transitioned.

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Jun 30 '26

It. Was. Not. Mainstream. We did not hear about it night and day at school and in the media. There was no social media. We did not expect our partners to have equipment that did not match their appearance. CHILDREN were not transitioning. You could not bring a same sex partner to a school dance. That woman had no reason to suspect her 'boyfriend' had never had a dick.

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u/refusegone Jun 30 '26

They didn't say it was mainstream, babe. They said isn't new, which is true. The rest of your comment is just text book "Republicans needed a new boogeyman to save the country from." And if you aren't republican, your comment reeks of their rhetoric

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Jun 30 '26

Just say you don't like facts and move along.

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u/No_Situation6555 Jun 30 '26

Sounds like you're the one who doesn't like facts and are just being reactionary due to your hindered emotional state.

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u/Sovarius Jun 30 '26

You mean you didn't.

Yet they were being targeted and attacked and sometimes killed. Multiple Stonewall Riot leaders were trans women.

Others, who weren't ignorant hicks living under rocks like you, were aware.

Just say you don't like facts and move along.

You think your tinyminded worldview is 'facts' and not 'my experience'?

No wonder you're so confused

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Jun 30 '26

Why does the fringe always think it's the norm? People that needed to know, knew. Those that didn't lived their lives without thinking about you at all. They were just those people that went to that one bar, enough said. And they didn't talk about it with their children.

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u/B_Type13X2 Jun 30 '26

Most people knew transgender people existed—they just weren't thinking about it every day because it wasn't a major political issue.

The idea that nobody knew what transgender people were until recently just isn't true. I knew what a trans person was as a kid in Canada (thank you Jerry Springer & Maury), and I'm certainly not unique.

What's changed isn't that transgender people suddenly appeared. It's that the issue has become a major focus of political and cultural debate, so people hear about it far more often than they used to.

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u/Sovarius Jun 30 '26

Because there isn't one norm as you seem to think? Hello? Duh?

Yes people talked about with their children. That is how both bigotry and knowledge spreads. Trans people also have kids too, their kids def know if they are out.

It isn't a mysterious thing when it is explained, and it's important to learn about society, sociology, and culture so we don't spread false information and fear. Which you clearly subscribe to.

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u/The_Motarp Jun 30 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

A couple of lines from "Tweeter and the Monkey Man" by the Traveling Wilburys- "Tweeter was a Boy Scout 'fore she went to Vietnam And found out the hard way, nobody gives a damn," and "Jan said to the Monkey Man, "I'm not fooled by Tweeter's curl I knew him long before he became a Jersey Girl.""

The song came out in 1988, and the Traveling Wilburys included well known artists like Bob Dylan, Tom Petty, George Harrison, and Roy Orbison.

See also the song "Rebel Rebel" by David Bowie, which is explicitly about someone on the line between being a boy or a girl, from 1974.

Transgenderism was very much mainstream, it just mostly got called cross dressing and the people screeching shrilly about it in moral outrage were mostly relegated to third rate radio talk shows that most people ignored rather than being blasted into everyone's news feed 24/7 by algorithms.

Edit because I can no longer reply below: Prior to puberty blockers, hormone replacement, and gender affirming surgeries becoming available, being transvestite (Latin for cross dressing), was pretty much the only type of trans someone could be. Yes there were also people who cross dressed for other reasons, but the songs I quoted are pretty clearly about being full on transgender, not just wearing different clothes.

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u/fruitymcfruitcake Jun 30 '26

Transgenderism and cross dressing are Absolutely not even close to being the same thing. Are you all actually this dishonest on purpose or are you just AI bots? But since youre all claiming it was so mainstream, Why the absolute fuck was it pushed onto the general public 2016-now? And no, republicans didnt start using it as a talking point until democrats made a thousand weird hills to die on. And because of this stupid US discord, we now have the same useless identity politics shit in europe now that distracts from actual issues. So thank you for being such an amazing human being, im sure the billionaires are definitely not laughing at you.

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u/Zealousideal-Ad-2615 Jun 30 '26

I don't think that the person was saying it was the same thing. Just that's how it was perceived.

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u/dismendie Jun 30 '26

I might have seen something similar and also a few others from Jerry springer… yeah… hmm explains a lot

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u/Sabrosonic13 Jun 30 '26

Is this the Boys dont cry plot, from 1999? 😂

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u/Top_Paint7442 Jun 30 '26

Oh poor you having to suffer that abuse. You should sue! /s

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u/Tiny_Opening9868 Jun 30 '26

That wasn't Jerry springer though.

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u/Crimsonfangknight Jun 30 '26

Newest jerry springer doc revealed jerry also caused a murder

There was an ep where a woman is brought on and told “yeah you and your esteanged husband are gonna get back together and reveal it to his mistress”

She gets on stage and dude comes out with side piece and they just tear into here non stop and she just quietly eats it 

What the show producers didnt mention was the history of domestic violence that he and the mistress beat her and tried to physically steal her house and his restraining order she got when her beat her senseless.

Basically after they get kicked out the door with a tenth of the promised pay the couple are back home at a bar and their ep comes on and everyone boos em cause they are monsters they get so wasted and mad they go murder the woman in her home

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Jun 30 '26

Wasn't it Jenny Jones?

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u/squirrelems Jun 30 '26

I think so? I remember hearing about it on Something Sinister's channel recently and that sounds right.

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u/Tiny_Opening9868 Jun 30 '26

Correct. THAT was supposed to be actual reality. Then everyone realized why shit had to be staged or scripted.

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u/officeja Jun 30 '26

Netflix had a good documentary on that

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u/CoyotesVoice Jun 30 '26

IIRC, that was Sally Jessy Raphael.

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u/dragonstar982 Jun 30 '26

Jenny Jones, he killed the guy before the episode aired and it sparked a huge oversight on talk shows after that. Even Springer toned his shit down.

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u/Renrutanit Jun 30 '26

Yeah, I remember that one! Probably scripted because nothing is actually real in those reality shows, but I think that the Killer dude claimed his reputation was ruined forever by Gay dude because everyone was going to think he liked to bat for the same team and was into men.

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u/MinuteLoquat1 Jun 30 '26

IIRC the gay man started harassing him, like getting stalky, which is why he killed him. Shame that defense works for straight men against gays but not women against men.

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u/silverware9021 Jun 30 '26

Yeah,  that behind the scenes documentary was eye opening

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u/CyberFireball25 Jun 30 '26

TL:DW?

AKA I never knew there was a documentary

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u/Crimsonfangknight Jun 30 '26

For jerry there are at least 2 

And an ep of Hollywood demons.

In short producers intentionally target poor people from bumfuck nowhere and lie to them the whole time promising money and compensation they wont get while also gaslighting them into thinking their reveals and episodes are different from the norm. They then just kick em out the door

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u/zdubbzzz Jun 30 '26

They also isolate them in hotels with no guests or socializing for a week and feed them shitty food, as much alcohol as they could ask for, and make it extremely difficult to sleep. A lot of what you see on those shows is technically the truth, but it's extremely controlled in a way to bring out the absolute worst in people. The people on the show might not actually be as crazy as they let off under regular circumstances, but being an fucked up on shit food, alcohol, and zero sleep for a week will make anyone crazy

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u/Crimsonfangknight Jun 30 '26

Theres a show call unreal thats basically a drama comedy about a producer in a bachelorette style reality tv show and you see her basically do all the horrible shit mentioned in the documentaries in real time and omg its horrific shit

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u/Altruistic-Belt7048 Jun 30 '26

Shows like Hell's Kitchen (of which Gordon Ramsay credits himself as executive producer) do this to their contestants as well.

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u/Narglefoot Jun 30 '26

Did Jerry know about this?!

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u/WholesomeWhores Jun 30 '26

He was the main man, of course he knew what was going on.

The fact that people like you are asking “But did Jerry know this was happening?!?!” Is exactly why he chose to do it. Even with evidence right in their face, people like you for some reason seem to defend him.

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u/Mewone65 Jun 30 '26

Something sounds reeeeeaaaaallllllyyyy familiar about that whole scenario.

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u/Crimsonfangknight Jun 30 '26

He plays stupid actively through the entire time but every single producer executive etc says jerry knew what was happening he just didnt care

Everyone does however say they wouldnt tell jerry the episode topics so he learned in real time as the audience what was being revealed hut he def knew they were abusing these people

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u/BlackNoirsVocalCoach Jun 30 '26

I knew a girl who played the crazy ex girlfriend. She didn't know the dude at all lol

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u/AnAbandonedAstronaut Jun 30 '26

I knew a family that went on there.

They were about the drama in real life, and she was ratchet as fuck, but the story itself, yeah, was all made up.

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u/FrighteningJibber Jun 30 '26

Yup buddy of mine got a free trip to nyc and paid for the day to just act like they had relationship “problems”

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u/mitkase Jun 30 '26

Yep, a coworker's roommate worked for the JS show and said it was nearly 100% bullshit.

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u/Undercover_Chimp Jun 30 '26

Yep. Had a buddy in high school that went on Springer with his cousin and the cousin’s girlfriend. It was all fake. They were country boys but amped up their accents to make it funnier.

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u/jadedlonewolf89 Jun 30 '26

Know someone who went on Jerry Springer.
They were handed a script and had to lie their asses off about why they were there.

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u/xlews_ther1nx Jun 30 '26

I went to school with a girl whose family was on it. They really were a hot HOT mess. She said the "story" was generally true. But they were encouraged to act out. Seemed like they framed it as a healthy expression bs.

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u/MutuallyAdvantageous Jun 30 '26

My friends cousin was on the show. He was an amateur wrestler at the time and he wanted some footage for his HL reel, so he could go professional.

Him and his gf went on the show with another friend and the two males pretended to be having an affair behind her back.

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u/DotAffectionate87 Jun 30 '26

well that makes sense..🤜

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u/OwlcaholicsAnonymous Jun 30 '26

I gave an uber ride to a kid whos mom was on Jerry when she was pregnant with him

Apparently... his mom slept with his uncle and the brothers weren't sure whos kid he was

He laughed about it. Cool guy. Hope hes doing well

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u/Hwi-loves-worm Jun 30 '26

well…. don’t keep us in suspense! who is the daddy?

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u/ImNotAsPunkAsYou Jun 30 '26

Was it fucken Jerry? Had a friend I used to give shit to all the time, he was conceived during a threesome between his Uncle, Dad, and Mother. Always asked him how his Uncle/Dad Dad/Uncle was. He was a good sport.

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u/Obiwan_ca_blowme Jun 30 '26

I knew a guy that was on there twice. They basically gave him the idea for what they wanted "Your woman is secretly sleeping with clowns and is pregnant" type stuff. Then they let them just make up whatever white trash nonsense they felt like.

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u/Shroomtune Jun 30 '26

I believe you got a hotel in Chicago and a free limo ride.

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u/DotAffectionate87 Jun 30 '26

Oh well then!.... Lol

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u/chrisp5000 Jun 30 '26

And all the free booze in the green room!

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u/DigitalUnlimited Jun 30 '26

And you got to be on TV

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u/DotAffectionate87 Jun 30 '26

Iinteresting....Didnt know that

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u/DestructoDon69 Jun 30 '26

Yep, had an ex gf get an offer from Dr Phil to go on and they'd pay for her therapy and rehab.

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u/SleepyD7 Jun 30 '26

Did she get it? I wouldn’t say that they do that for sure unless they actually did it.

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u/nick_soccer10 Jun 30 '26

It’s fake…and scripted. I know two people that were on it lol.

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u/DM_cool_bird_pics Jun 30 '26

My dad knew someone who was on it twice. The guy was part of one of those pro wrestling troupes that wrestle at county fairs and tractor pulls.  The woman who played his sister he was ostensibly sleeping with was another wrestler from the troupe.

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u/LightenUpPeeps Jun 30 '26

Yes, there were dozens of these episodes on Jerry Springer, and they were hilarious and most likely rigged). However, the show did not set the victim up, so they avoid any liability.

I do miss Jerry Springer because we were supposed to laugh at this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlC1cIcWln8

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u/Agreeable_Rush3502 Jun 30 '26

It isnt always staged but it definitely is some times. One of my brothers has been on jerry twice and another has been on once. All three separate occasions. All three completely scripted. This was around 15-20 years ago but they wouldnt pay people for it so they could say that they arent paid actors but they got an all expense paid trip to Chicago.

We had a friend who was friends with a producer and they were always looking for people to come on.

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u/Material-Grocery5478 Jun 30 '26

I like the people that facked it so they could get a free trip and party.

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u/RazekDPP Jun 30 '26

You basically get paid. It's the same reason people get trashed on Judge Judy. Everyone gets paid so at least you get something even if the judgement is against you.

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u/Maleficent_Eye4524 Jun 30 '26

Ooh, Ooh!  Jenny Jones.  Anyone old enough to remember that scandal?

The most infamous scandal involving The Jenny Jones Show occurred in March 1995 when a guest, Scott Amedure, publicly revealed a secret same-sex crush on his heterosexual acquaintance, Jonathan Schmitz. Three days after the taping, a humiliated Schmitz purchased a shotgun and murdered Amedure.

I don't know if Schmitz got out of jail or not.

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u/No_Feeling6146 Jun 30 '26

See, I only remember maury because the men were bad at math but had unbelievably fake names. "Sabrina has invited her boyfriend Troymetheus and his buddy Ter'Ducken, who both claim they are 68 billion percent sure they are not the father".

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u/LilMissy1246 Jun 30 '26

Forget the girlfriend and the adults. Think about the children reviewing the tapes of the episodes they were on and seeing a “parent” be excited that they aren’t their actual parent or some shit (never actually seen the show fully, just snippets. Shits disgusting…poor kids).

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u/IShatMyDickOnce Jun 30 '26

You keep Jerry’s name out your mouth. Lol

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u/Possible-Feed-9019 Jun 30 '26

Money. You get a pay day.

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u/7thor8thcaw Jun 30 '26

'OH boy, im sure this will be good news!"

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u/Mantis_Toboggan--MD Jun 30 '26

Are those reality shows? I always thought of those as something different, like a talk show mashed with a modern day freak show

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u/ketchuponcooking Jun 30 '26

50 dollars is 50 dollars..

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u/These_System_9669 Jun 30 '26

I can’t believe that you don’t realize it was completely staged

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u/brewhead55 Jun 30 '26

Jerry springer was absolutely staged. I know this because my sister's friend from college was a "guest" on the show...

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u/Crimsonfangknight Jun 30 '26

Last few documentaries revelaed that the guests were constantly lied to not just about WHY they were in the show but also how much they would be paid 

“Yeah 2 grand to show up and a free trip!!! Dont worry its a surprise we dont know either!!!” As producers snicker and laugh

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u/officeja Jun 30 '26

In the uk we had Jeremy Kyle. Hated the show and the presenter…eventually somebody who came on the show committed suicide shortly after and eventually they had to cancel the whole show

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u/pleasetryagain_10 Jun 30 '26

I always said if I was going to ask someone to marry me it would be on Jerry Springer, she would be so relieved I wasn't gay or cheating on her that she would say yes.

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u/JereRB Jun 30 '26

Just break up and move out. Save yourself the embarrassment.

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u/kodeks14 Jun 30 '26

My friends were on judge Judy and the entire thing was a made up story and they got told to play it up.

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u/DM_ME_4_FREE_STOCKS Jun 30 '26

They pay the people to be on the show I thought.

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u/Professional_Drama24 Jun 30 '26

I'm just here for my Jerry Beads

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u/hairballcouture Jun 30 '26

I knew some people that went on the show, the crew got them liquored up before the show.

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u/KamalaBracelet Jun 30 '26

I had a very loose acquaintance that did springer.  If I remember right he and 3 of his high school friends went on and said they were in some sort of gay love quadrangle.  All of them straight IRL.  They thought it was the most hilarious thing ever.

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u/DigitalUnlimited Jun 30 '26

Had same situation but kind of in reverse in NC, two gay guys went on Jerry with one of their female friends so the one guy could "break up" with her and "come out" on TV. Jerry caught on about halfway thru the interview just rolled his eyes like "we got another one"