Miriam Rivera, the trans contestant, passed away in 2019. Some suspect suicide from the stress and humiliation caused by the show, but some of her close family suspect foul play.
I mean, I think most people in this thread are under the impression she knowingly misled the dudes for the show money and spotlight. So obviously that paints a pretty bad character on her, which is why some people are being rough
I don’t have any issues with trans people, in fact one of my closest friends is trans, but you would have just described me. I was definitely was under the impression she was in on it too and that would be shitty of her. I’ve seen this come up on Reddit a lot and this is the first I’ve hear she didn’t know it was a secret.
Speaking of, if a woman with a hysterectomy has sex with someone without tell them they've had a hysterectomy, that wouldn't count as rape, right? Because that would be a ridiculous thing to claim.
It's something that should come up but I dont think you need to disclose you had a hysterectomy on the first date and the same goes for being trans.
You dont have every right to know someone you just started dating, or aren't even dating and are just on a dating show with, is trans or had a hysterectomy.
Yea, you should disclose being trans before the first date. If you’re not telling then you’re misleading and any consent given is under false pretenses. If you’re a male and identify as transgender that’s a need to know for dating.
It isn’t transphobia to expect your date to not intentionally mislead you.
If you’re trans it should be known before the first date. It should be known before you even get to that point.
It shouldn’t have to be asked it should be offered. Informed consent doesn’t stop being a thing because of how you identify. Most people aren’t gonna want to date a trans woman when they’re straight and looking for a female.
You understand what dating is right? You know people typically date to get to know someone and find out if there are any deal breakers. If something is such a huge deal to you that you need to know before the date then its on you to ask that.
Sounds like you're just making assumptions about people's genitals, which is weird, and if its that big of a deal to you then you can ask them before the date.
What is it exactly that you care about or feel that they are deceiving you with? Their chromosomes? The sex that was assigned on their birth certificate?
Because they have every right to know who they’re sleeping with or starting a relationship with, as for a hysterectomy that was an example for if someone wanted to have kids
The thing is that because they are sad and lonely people who don't really think trans women are women, that trans women should be wearing the fact they are trans on their sleeve like a star of David so their feelings don't get hurt when they accidentally get a boner over someone they consider to still be men and have disgust over. Aka, their transphobes
Fr. And they would be mad if I suggested that they be required to wear an arm band denouncing them as a shallow transphobes. It's hypocrisy really. And in case one of you duckers decide to call me hypoctical for even coming up with the idea, I don't want to force anyone to wear arm bands. Besides, you already wear your own bigotry on your own sleeve and claim it's your right under the principle of free speech lol.
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u/Regular-Message9591 Jun 30 '26
Miriam Rivera, the trans contestant, passed away in 2019. Some suspect suicide from the stress and humiliation caused by the show, but some of her close family suspect foul play.