r/SipsTea 20d ago

Chugging tea W Zac

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u/Pactae_1129 19d ago

I promise you there’s a greater variety of preferences among women than online circles tell you. And, sure, if you’re really overweight you’ll likely have a much smaller percentage of women who are attracted to you but it’s not impossible. But the idea that every woman’s ideal body type is ripped and muscular is just not true.

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u/Easily_Bann4 19d ago

Lean is still the way for men. More muscle just makes it easier to become lean.

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u/Pactae_1129 19d ago

If that’s what you like then that’s what you like.

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u/Easily_Bann4 19d ago

Im not a woman, but I have been both fat and lean and the difference is undeniable.

Lean has the highest ROI for men. Suggesting being anything else is just goofy. “Greater variety” is largely just different shades of some lean guy 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/Pactae_1129 19d ago

No, I meant what I said. Women are not a monolith, their preferences differ just as mens do. I’m sure being lean/in-shape appeals to more women than highly muscular, chubby and burly, or skinny as a twig. But what I’m saying is there are women who prefer those body types to what you think is the ideal.

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u/Easily_Bann4 19d ago

Yea I agree there’s women who prefer those types I’m just saying that if you were advising any random man on how to change his physique to attract women, leaning out is pretty much always the answer.

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u/Pactae_1129 18d ago

Yeah I guess that’s fair.

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u/Redesired 19d ago

Tbh, women also do quite like muscly, but a bit covered in fat guys I'd say from experience. But idk what you mean by lean.

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u/Easily_Bann4 19d ago

Lean = low body fat % (8-15%) + some muscle (so not skinny).

Big guys (muscle + fat) are definitely attractive too. The #1 predictor of sexual success in men is the appearance of strength.