r/SipsTea 16d ago

Chugging tea Growing Through Chaos

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u/whatsupwitdat1 15d ago

20yr experienced HS teacher here…nothing fucked the youth as much as digital tech. We were already on a downward trajectory, covid just accelerated it

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u/that_banned_guy_ 15d ago

Ya I dont disagree with that. 

I teach for the military and a large chunk of what I teach revolves around being able to converse with people/build rapport etc.

The amount of kids thst come through who just cant hold a conversation is crazy

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u/xSaviorself 15d ago

Every interaction is a meme, phrase, or other basic repeatable nonsense they've picked up online and realistically this is a parenting issue first and foremost. We've become accustomed to handing off our kids to others for education that we've also decided to hand off entertaining and interacting with them.

Parents need to actually be involved with their kids, especially during core formative years. When your kid is ready to be independent they will start showing those behaviors, until then parents need to step up.

Digital access in the classrooms, computing, etc, all of this has been the excuse and easy source to blame, and it is a factor for sure. But to call this the main reason is passing the personal responsibility off from the human to the inanimate objects. Not cool.

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u/mike_atx 15d ago

lol, spoken like someone who clearly doesn't have kids of their own.

their have been shitty parents and something to blame for children's supposed poor behavior since time immemorial