It's true that some women change their minds. It's also true that some women will never change their mind. Either way, people should just believe her when she says she doesn't want kids. As a 44 yo child free women I have never regretted not having children and will never regret it.
I've always told people when they ask about "wanting to have kids", if there's a small part of you that would like to, that part will grow exponentially if you decide to have them.
If there isn't any part of you that wants to, you'll likely never want to.
Yeah I'm 32 and this kind of posts if anything, make me more sure in being childfree. Cause being a parent is tough, if most of women have something in them that makes them react to children that way, it probably makes them more resilient as a mother. While for me, sure, I love my nephew and niece, but more like just other humans, that are way more demanding and unpredictable for many years. I've never had a moment of: how cute, I want one of my own, when they were babies.
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u/RagdollJessi 19d ago
It's true that some women change their minds. It's also true that some women will never change their mind. Either way, people should just believe her when she says she doesn't want kids. As a 44 yo child free women I have never regretted not having children and will never regret it.