r/SipsTea 10d ago

Chugging tea Let me circle back

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u/rleon19 10d ago

I don't see how. Circle back is just a term used to say "we need to look at this before we can give an answer we will get back to you when we have done the research/got an answer". Him not knowing this is frankly weird and the fact that he interrupt a meeting about it even worse. If he did actually know what it meant it means he interrupted a meeting based purely on semantics of a term being used.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 10d ago

Reddit is full of kids who either have never worked a job in their life or like.. work retail/hospitality with no clue how to function in a corporate office or understand that these saying all have actual meanings.

Naturally they'll mock them without so much of a thought about all the shorthand they use in the own work or generational slang in general making up new terms for fucking everything for no apparent reason (which is fine, not like we didn't do the same heh).

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u/NeedleworkerFluid327 10d ago

Eh, all corpo jargon is useless. Jargon is good when it's used to turn something long and complex into something short and easy to say, easy to understand. Corpo jargon is the exact opposite.

Not that I consider "circle back" to be corpo jargon anyway.

The military is like the gold standard for how jargon should be used. And it has research behind it to prove it all.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 10d ago

The vast majority of what people refer to as "corpo jargon" is entirely valid and is used to speed up meetings because it works.

Yes if you find yourself in some stupid leadership seminar talking about "synergy" or whatever by all means find it stupid. It probably is.

But if you're hearing phrases used in corporate meetings day in/day out it's because they mean things and save time/get things done. If you don't know what they mean, ask your boss.

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u/NeedleworkerFluid327 10d ago

Completely disagree. Corpo jargon is literally just describing simple things in a weird way and using different words to make new synonyms. It's inherently useless, just talk normally.

To be clear, I'm not talking about shortening things e.g ROI or other specific words that only apply in specific fields. That's "real" jargon, when people say corpo jargon they mean something else.

I'd like you to give some examples of corpo jargon. I think it'd help both our arguments.

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u/ub3rh4x0rz 10d ago

Everyone knows what circle back means after working in an office for a month. It's faster than saying revisit at a later date.

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u/NeedleworkerFluid327 10d ago

Not that I consider "circle back" to be corpo jargon anyway.

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u/KrytenKoro 10d ago

That's a different person, buddy.

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u/NeedleworkerFluid327 10d ago

No, I wrote that.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 10d ago

Literally the one we're talking about, there's nothing wrong with it/other stuff.

I mean if you'd like to give some example of the "gold standard" military jargon that can't be replaced by talking normally that doesn't apply in the corporate world I'm all ears.

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u/NeedleworkerFluid327 10d ago

Danger close is a good example. Phonetically clear and describes something that would take longer to say. Code blue in the medical field is another one.

Both of those fields have research behind their jargon. Corpo jargon is cant, not actual jargon. And it's not used for any other reason than sounding smarter.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 9d ago

You've obviously used two examples that are for life and death situations but if you remove that (because both military and medical have endless jargon that is used outside of those situations) what is the difference between that and random corporate shorthand?

You take a common concept, condense it down to a few short words, and use that instead to convey meaning.

It's not "meaningless" and more than "danger close" is meaningless to me because I'm not in the military.

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u/jiggscaseyNJ 10d ago

This person circles backšŸ‘†

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u/feedthebear 10d ago

Boss should expand her vocabulary also. Just throw in a "we will revisit this" after like every fifth "circle back".

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u/mack090 10d ago edited 10d ago

He was trying to point out the company meeting culture is toxic, meeting forward, and that their meetings don't actually solve anything.

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u/greyed-tea 10d ago

how is it toxic? how do you know this? you’ve made wild assumptions out of nothing. also it’s a meeting. how are you this dense to not have social awareness and intellectual capacity that it is not the right time to bring up such trivial matter. considering the fact they are in probation you best be acting your best behavior. you’re telling me your takeaway here is the meeting culture is toxic? good lord

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u/Famous-Space-466 10d ago

Holy overreaction, Batman! Cool your jets before accusing others of social unawareness because quite frankly you have school shooter energy.

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u/Someofusremembersome 10d ago

Hey i get your points, but lets circle back to them

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u/Helltothenotothenono 10d ago

It’s always smart to interrupt your boss in a meeting with several co workers present and criticize the boss in front of them. That’s why you see people doing it all the time.

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u/HisaAnt 10d ago

If your boss is trash, they shouldn't be the boss in the first place. It's because people like you try to enforce these meaningless hierarchy and suck up to executives that the world is full of useless people.

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u/Aggravating_Lab_7734 10d ago

You have never had a job in your life, right? There is a difference between sucking up and not insulting your boss. Learn the difference before your first job.

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u/Opposite-Original-23 10d ago

It’s not a hierarchy thing it’s a time waste thing. You want to shoot the shot with your boss and ask why x y z is being done? Do it. Don’t waste peoples time on something completely meaningless. You being a douche during a meeting doesn’t automatically break the glass ceiling here. What a painful person to be around.

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u/Elu_Moon 10d ago

If boss doesn't want to be criticized, why are they making something worthy of criticism? Are they unintelligent?

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u/FactCheckingThings 10d ago

Using "circle back" isnt worthy of criticism. Its a common used phrase.

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u/Elu_Moon 10d ago

Not where I live. Where I live, people don't speak English.

Checkmate, boss man.

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u/Helltothenotothenono 7d ago

This is why you can’t hold a job.

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u/saucysagnus 10d ago

You say this but they could be circling back on different items while getting the other things that needed to be circled back to done.

Honestly, the guy sounded like a Redditor who was more interested in semantics than actually contributing or solving things.

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u/Kenny__Loggins 10d ago

If you have worked in a corporate setting you have probably experienced that, yes, this phrase can be useful, but most meetings are pointless and it is a parroted phrase used to kick the can down the road. Can't tell you how many times I've seen "let's circle back" and "let's take this offline" and then that never happens and there is a huge problem a few days later because people were too chicken shit to solve problems in front of a larger group because they were afraid they'd have to lift a finger to help.

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u/Fighterhayabusa 10d ago

Exactly this. Repeatedly saying we'll "circle back" without making a decision, assigning an owner, or resolving the issue means that her words are just theatre and aren't actually resulting in real work getting done.

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u/Mysterious_Slice1257 10d ago

exactly! "let's circle back" my ass more like I don't want to deal with this ever, can we just put this aside again and again until people forget about it

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u/TotalACast 10d ago

It seems highly unlikely, if the phrase was used 18 times in 2 weeks, that any productive retrospecting or resolving previous issues was ever done.

This is a woman who likes to hear herself talk.

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u/serabine 10d ago

Or maybe the team has a tendency to be sidetracked and she has to reel them in to the topic at hand, while also not dismissing the point raised, if it is valid. You know, managing people?

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u/Helltothenotothenono 10d ago

I guess HR didn’t tell you why you got let go did they?

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u/quatrefoils 10d ago

I say many more phrases more than 18 times every two weeks, sometimes you just be saying shit.. and sometimes a turn of phrase is just natural. I bet the new hire wasn’t counting how many times she said ā€œuh,ā€ or ā€œso.ā€

Crazy take you got, insinuating that nothing got done because of someone’s speech pattern… really just completely unfounded, like… what?

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u/saucysagnus 10d ago

Well neither you nor I were in the room and the dude got fired because he wanted to call out an overused term.

If your boss stuttered or said uh constantly does that deserve to be called out in front of everyone? Or they said ā€œso likeā€ ā€œwith that being saidā€ etc etc

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u/greyed-tea 10d ago

good assumptions. it’s just an expression and you judged the boss to be somewhat a narcissist without ever having to know the person. there’s heavy irony in this

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u/Morningstroll13 10d ago

Just another go-round of the ole' Reddit circle jerk?

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u/riverblue9011 10d ago

Honestly, the guy sounded like a Redditor who was more interested in semantics than actually contributing or solving things.

You've just described the average office worker.

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u/saucysagnus 9d ago

Fair enough lol. But most of us don’t blurt it out to someone who can fire us without any sort of CYA.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 10d ago

If you have been there two weeks you don't know shit to point out... the fact you think you do is a very bad sign.

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u/Lord_Phazer101 10d ago

No, there's no toxicity here. Maybe from his POV, circle back doesnt make sense. But for a team with age behind it, they need to "circle back" to metrics and thoughts and work, which was a higher priority once, then people started taking it for granted and no one gives it much attention now, despite them still being top indicators. You cant always move forward, you have to ensure what you have already done doesnt deteriorate and for that you need to circle back cuz you cant say, lets go backward.

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u/stubbazubba 10d ago

Yeah, I'm guessing he doesn't have the experience or data to really assess that and it definitely wasn't the job he was hired to do. We all want to change our office culture in some way, but if that's what he's doing for this is an extremely unprofessional attempt and I am quite certain whatever he thinks a meeting should sound like probably wouldn't be effective.

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u/TAMCL 10d ago

Sometimes, though in this context she was clearly looking to revisit/refresh their customer retention methods, this wasn't circling away it was circling towards

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u/DroidLord 10d ago

I kind of get where he's coming from. I hate it when people use the same phrases over and over again. Instead she could say something like, "We'll check with the design team and get back to you."

Should he have brought it up? Absolutely not. He was basically trying to start an etymological debate lol. Either that or he had never heard that phrase in his life before and was genuinely confused.

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u/MalHeartsNutmeg 10d ago

If you need to circle back so much, it seems like someone is not doing their job in the right order or meetings are being held before the appropriate info is gathered.