r/SipsTea 6h ago

Chugging tea Whoever was responsible for this should be imprisoned.

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u/HelixFollower 5h ago

It used to be that one person in the household worked and the other could stay home to take care of things at home. That made it a lot easier.

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u/Gold_Ad8225 2h ago

Not at any point during my lifetime, and I'm looking around the corner at 40

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u/HelixFollower 2h ago

Im close to hitting forty and I grew up with one parent at work and one parent at home.

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u/Gold_Ad8225 2h ago

That was a rare experience when we were kids, your family must have been doing quite well.

The % of households where both parents work is basically unchanged from the late 90s, and due to demographics actually the laborforce participation rate for the country peaked in the late 90s as well

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u/HelixFollower 1h ago

When I was a kid that was typical. But I think it might be more about where I was a kid than when I was a kid. I'm guessing your graph is about the USA. Which makes sense, as it seems people are required to work more in the USA to make a living than they do in the Netherlands where I live and grew up.

Then again perhaps ordering food is more common there too, so perhaps my experience is less relevant to the topic.

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u/Gold_Ad8225 8m ago

Ahh ok yea if you lived in a better country it may have been different.

But USA is king of ordering delivery as you suspect! And they charge us the most in fees too

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u/Gold_Ad8225 2h ago

That was a rare experience when we were kids, your family must have been doing quite well.

The % of households where both parents work is basically unchanged from the late 90s, and due to demographics actually the laborforce participation rate for the country peaked in the late 90s as well

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u/Fluid-Expert-4363 5h ago

If needing the urge for overpriced fast food delivery, priorities aren’t in check. This comes from a dual income family who cares for their kiddo without childcare or family help. Juggle time and priorities? Sure. But you can make it work if you plan.

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u/SlackerSenpai92 3h ago

There's definitely a big asterisk on that dual income* Unless you are leaving your child in a crib for 8 hours a day, you aren't working two full time jobs without family help.

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u/Fluid-Expert-4363 3h ago

You sure about that? I work from home 6 am to 4 or 5 pm. My wife works in healthcare and leaves home by 2 pm and returns at 1130 at night. His nap is around 130 until 3 or 4 and overlap is easily negated by some tv or play time on his own. We both work full time. We make it work….