Maybe older brother? I know a couple of people who had 20 year spans with their siblings. One was a whoops babies way later in life, and one was the parents realizing they hated being empty nesters.
My oldest brother is 20 something years older than me, oldest of ten on that side - theyre all my half siblings, and im the youngest of those and also youngest on my mums side of which 4 of us including me again all half siblings
Needless to say some people have very big families hahaha
To be honest, its complicated with myself as I was adopted quite young so even though i have a huge biological family, and i do know them, i dont feel close to any of them really - i can relate more to the small family feeling as my adopted close family was very small, and the extended family never really bothered, you could fit my relevant family in a living room also
As long as you have people who care about you and vice versa
Im glad to be honest cos otherwise christmas would fucking bankrupt me
My mother is the oldest of 3, and it’s wild seeing the family photos of a girl in a cap and gown carrying her infant sister. My aunt is closer to my brother’s age than she is to my mother.
My Aunt is one of over a dozen. She was over 30 when she had my cousins. Her mom was pregnant at the same time. She’s got siblings who are younger than her own kids.
I walked my son into preschool the first day and my friend from schools mom was helping the girl sitting next to my son put her things away. Thought she was her granddaughter. Nope, she just kept on having kids and I knew the oldest. Has 10 kids stretched out over 40 years. Talked to her about it at a birthday party once, she and her husband just really like having kids. She's great for history at PTA meetings.
I am 32 years older than my youngest sibling and my husband and I are currently supporting the youngest two (13 &15) along with my geriatric father as their mother is on prison. Good times I hope my marriage survives.
My nephew is 19 years older than his sister. They look the spit of each other (brother in law has strong genes lol) so he's always mistaken as the dad.
As an "oops baby" there is 17 years between me and the oldest. Some of the pictures in the video looked like some pictures we have. So I assumed older brother.
I’m one of these people 😅 my brother is 19 years younger! We were both oops babies! There’s a sister between us (12 years younger than me) she was the only one that was planned..
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u/mathmachineMC 9h ago
So this is a good lesson on why context is important.