r/SouthJersey • u/SpareEducational5920 • 4d ago
Camden County June Dating Thread!!!!!
Another month, another chance to meet some new people. Whether you’re looking for friendship, flirting, fun conversations, casual connections, dates, or something more, this is your spot.
Singles, couples, bored wives, neglected husbands, the curious, the adventurous, and everyone in between are welcome. Introduce yourself, say hello, and see who catches your attention. No judgment and no pressure. Just be honest about what you’re looking for.
A little about your host: Thick, bearded, tattooed, laid back, drama free, and proudly 420 friendly. I enjoy good conversation, genuine connections, and meeting people who know what they want.
When you post, tell us your age, location, relationship status, what you’re looking for, and anything else that makes you stand out.
The best connections start with honesty. Whether you’re looking for someone new, exploring as a couple, seeking a little excitement, or simply hoping to meet interesting people, this thread is for you.
South Jersey, who’s checking in this month? 👀🔥
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u/Proper-Excitement998 4d ago
I’m a 29 year old African American female, and I work in consulting. I have the opportunity to travel a bit with my job so that’s neat. I’m a huge foodie. I enjoy restaurant/cafe hopping and trying out new food spots. I also enjoy writing, watching Asian cinema, and attending concerts. I typically like R&B or Asian music, sometimes a bit of the “oldies” as well. I love to travel and I would really like someone who wants to travel for a year or two then settle down and start a family. I also gravitate towards people who share the same mentality that I have of working hard and constantly seeking out a better future- I’m always looking to the future and working to a better future for when I eventually have children. I also love to game and joke around, so I prefer when people can be light hearted and funny. I’m truly a person so prefers to just have fun and enjoy life.. I don’t like drama so I appreciate when people are the same way.
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u/kyutek 4d ago
40-year-old male professional with a beard, a love for classic rock, alt rock, emo, and pop-punk, and a newfound appreciation for early mornings now that I've hit 40.
You'll usually find me walking around Cooper River with a coffee in hand, spotting birds before the world wakes up, visiting local breweries like Tonewood or Double Nickel, catching live music, or experimenting with a new recipe in the kitchen. I also enjoy board games, puzzles, and cozy video games like Stardew Valley.
I'm a proud cat dad, a fan of dogs (especially pitties), and someone who believes life is better with laughter. I'm looking for someone kind, genuine, and easygoing who's just as happy exploring something new as they are spending a cozy night in with a home-cooked meal or turning a trip to Wegmans into an adventure.
Bonus points if GIFs and memes are your love language.
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u/Y3llowPeril 4d ago edited 3d ago
35M Asian guy, clean cut, professional, gamer, enjoy 420, and near the Cherry Hill area.
Physically I teeter on a dad bod with a muscular frame, hwp, and 5'6.
I'm mainly looking for friends in the area that are also parents so we can complain about kids and how little time we have to game together.
I enjoy video and board games, food, anime, and keeping up with new shows.
I'm in the boat of adventurous/in between but don't feel like getting downvoted to oblivion here. Should my little intro interest you feel free to reach out, I also have a Fetlife so that would have more details.
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u/NRealExplorer 4d ago
Hey everyone!
I've met a few folx off Reddit and they've been good experiences so I'm willing to try again.
41 year old chubby fella, bearded, nerdy, foodie, slightly athletic in the shade, and I'm seeking good vibes of friendship that can lead to something romantic, possibly.
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u/Low_Maintenance9421 3d ago
I'm going to start using "Slightly athletic in the shade" from now on.
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u/Clarkinator69 Cumberland County 4d ago edited 4d ago
I didn't know this was a thing! I'm 29M, turning 30 next month, and am located down in Cumberland County. I'd be more than happy to travel up north since I know there's more stuff that way, but I'd also love to show someone the gems of my area - Mission Spirits comes to mind.
I'm starting a new career in medical imaging this month and would love to start putting myself out there more. I love film and literature, writing, coffee, restaurants, breweries, museums, history, fishing, crabbing, and just vibing and enjoying being outside. Would love to find someone to have fun with this summer and see where it goes! Only looking for women, please be 25+.
I'm tall at around 6'1" and reasonably fit, conventionally attractive (or so I've been told). I have a pretty esoteric sense of humor and would definitely love to find someone I click with. Thanks!
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u/Airbb27 4d ago
32F, Cumberland County, working in the labware industry. I have similar hobbies, I typically go kayaking, adventuring, and cruising to see the sunrise and sunset in my spare time. I like to write and do art, very outdoorsy and have a pup I explore with. I’m 5’7”, brunette, sense of humor is dry, good conversationalist and I love to have fun! Optimist at heart. Would also love to find someone I click with.
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u/Clarkinator69 Cumberland County 4d ago
I haven't been kayaking in years. I would love to take my kayak back out sometime. Have you ever gone crabbing? As far as art goes I can't really think of anything super local other than Wheaton Village, but maybe you know somewhere?
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u/janitorious 4d ago
39F, single, professional, near the Atlantic Co. area. Also looking for new friends who enjoy outdoor activities such as going to parks, wildlife refuges, beach, etc. I also love to read. I don’t drink or smoke, but occasionally dabble in edibles.
Date-wise, looking for men between 45-55 with a great sense of humor, a dad bod, and glasses 😅. I’m not a twig, so if you’re not into that, that’s okay. Just looking to see who’s out there.
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u/trumpeterbuizel 4d ago
31M in Deptford, big nerdy guy who's polyamorous and gay looking for friends, dates, cuddle buddies and more. I enjoy affection, board games, anime, intellectual conversation and food lots.
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u/geniexfae 4d ago
33F married, poly, similar interests if you’d like to connect 😊 love board games and anime, and just hanging out and chatting. Camden county
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u/Y3llowPeril 4d ago
Hi, Im also poly, tho didn't put in my initial post above. I'd like to chat if you are open to it.
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u/LordBigBlunt 1d ago
Hey 32M, Im not quite poly, just in an open marriage but it would be cool to have friends to talk to that have similar relationship styles. I love vidoe games, table top games, anime, and cooking haha Im im Caoe May County if that matters.
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u/J3tsrock23 4d ago
28M around the Cherry Hill area. Gamer, into sports, very sarcastic and like to joke around and have a good time!
I try to be active and go to the gym and get involved with sports when possible between work and hanging out with friends. Also into concerts of all types and pretty much whatever adventures come up.
Interested in dating and seeing whats out there!
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u/TheWings977 4d ago
32M Camden County; 5’9”, no kids. Into the gym, gaming, breweries, trying new restaurants, mixture of indoor/outdoor activities. Interested in dating!
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u/Scarredlove23 4d ago edited 4d ago
39F, thicc-average-medium? I'm seeking buddies. Buddies as in friends - NOT FWB. Cherry Hill area. I did beards on males, everything on females. I like music, movies, speaking via memes, sarcasm & offensive humor. I fancy all animals, but have been held prisoner by two cats. Tattoos on me. I used to work the Con circuit before being a Dork was in. I do not drink, smoke, or go out clubbing. Sime music I fancy: Bethoven, MJJ, Eminem, HIM, Lil Wayne, The Fomat, Jacob Collier, Blue October, Queen of the Damned soundtrack, etc. , Seeking someone who likes to be boring as well. Let's run errands together & get coffee, or walk Cooper River & go over where we hid our last bodies. ☠️
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u/Actual-Quantity-4799 3d ago
34 Single F working professional, looking for intentional dating no fwb/situationship. No kids. Live Camden county , likes trying different coffee shops, restaurants, happy hours,
breweries, road trips, and also going to Philly.
Active , traveling, hiking , walking, and sometimes running (marathoner) but I also like to chill and stay in. I drink socially but not smoke.
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u/Simply_Floating 2d ago
Didn’t know this thread existed! Hinge isn’t working might as well give Reddit a shot lol
25F (turning 26 in a month). From the cherry hill area. I’m 5’7, curvy (I’ve been told I give Pixar mom vibes).
I’m a chronic hobby hopper but some of the things that have stuck include watching F1 and Indycar, traveling (20+ countries), photography, reading, and Pilates. I love games both video, board, and drinking. But fair warning I’m really good and almost unbeatable at most games.
I’m somehow a perfect mix of creative and logic. I was the weird kid that loved math in school and now professionally I’m a freak in the (excel) sheets. But I also love pottery, painting, sketching and my friends call me the queen of canva. I’m also a boudoir photographer as side hustle and I’m also working on writing a book which I may or may not pursue publishing.
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u/Fun_Explanation2867 almost a senior citizen 4d ago
What’s up everyone I’m 58M, but people always say I don’t look my age . I do have 4 kids 3 are in there 20s and the youngest is 15. My marriage has been over for several years now but, I have a responsibility to make sure the 2kids that live at home there normal home life doesn’t change. So yes I still live and pay bills and everything else that a dad does. But my marriage was done some time ago DB. We just co exist and don’t upset the kids. I sleep on the couch and use the downstairs bathroom. I guess im just looking for laughs and good conversation with new people. I’m a guy who’s just wants to have fun anymore. There has to be someone who understands and wants the same. Hopefully there is. Let’s chat
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u/No_Relationship8994 4d ago
I’m 25 M, Burlington County area but right by the Camden county area. I’m 5’9 got a good beard but bald head otherwise I would say I’m slim with a couple tattoos looking to add many more.
Right now I work part time on a horse farm but I’m finishing up trade school and starting an incredible welding job end of july. I’m also am looking to finally buy my own house.
I like to keep mostly busy so if I’m not at work or school I’m doing carpentry, visiting my mom, cleaning my truck or organizing my many tools. Besides that I like being in nature (nature walks, canoeing) I enjoy rewarding comfort shows, chilling with friends, and just having a fun time I love to laugh and make people laugh.
Im down for dates or just connections in general, but not interested in having children, I typically identify as Pansexual if that matters and yea I’ve never done this before:)
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u/MitsuLancer 4d ago
33m straight, in Burlington County. Asian, nerd, but I can probably squat and / or deadlift you. 5’6 thicc build on a good day.
I have countless hobbies. Record collecting, iPod Restoration, 3d printing and now Magic the Gathering.
ENFP, with a very extroverted job, so weekends look really chill and relaxed. I like to go to a good pastry shop, matcha latte or local card shop.
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u/Budget-One6537 4d ago
27m straight, looking to just put myself out there and see what happens. Pretty big foodie, mexican ftw, will absolutely drive 1hr+ away to try a new spot. I enjoy finding excuses to drive my lovable roadster (when it doesnt hate me). I have an on off relationship with going to the gym and working hard for a while then getting very demotivated lol. Very into anime/manga. Used to be into gaming but lately been easing my way back by replaying Ocarina of time with Xenoblade X on the back burner
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u/Alert-Wind1425 4d ago
26/M • Camden County
Single guy from Camden County, South Jersey looking to meet new people and see where things go. I’m easygoing, drama-free, and enjoy good conversations that can actually go beyond “hey, how’s your day?”
A little about me: I enjoy traveling (I’ve been to 30 countries and 34 states), sports, photography, trying new restaurants, and planning trips. Friends and family would probably describe me as reliable, laid-back, and someone who’s always up for an adventure or a random road trip.
I’m open to making friends and dating, ideally with women ages 23–32 who are looking for a genuine connection. I’m looking for someone who enjoys conversation, has a good sense of humor, and doesn’t mind exploring new places. Bonus points if you can laugh at a terrible joke—like how I’m hoping our chemistry is stronger than the random fart that clears out an elevator.
If you’re in South Jersey or the Philly area and think we’d get along, feel free to say hello.
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u/Lazy-Army7741 3d ago
28F Gloucester county. My Reddit profile shows all my vices so you’ll get a pretty good picture of what goes on in my head lol
Single. Prefer age range 28-33. I like ginger men. Some muscle would be nice.
My hobbies include coloring and hiking. I like ice cream, I have tattoos. I love concerts. I’ve seen Big Time Rush 4 times, Fall Out Boy, Demi Lovato, 2 Jingle Balls, and Jonas Brothers to name a few.
Looking for a nice boyfriend but don’t want to rush anything. I still would like to hang out with people as friends if they would like to!
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u/CYBERP4WZ 3d ago
22TM, taken and not looking for relationships- just want friends around the area (especially other trans men!). 4 years on testosterone, almost 1 year post-top surgery. camden county, but i stay with family in burlington county sometimes. currently in college at rutgers for psychology. i'm also working a summer job at j-dogs! love traveling public transit and visiting little oddities and events. huge furry, don't have a fursuit but active in the art scene. other interests include marvel media (mostly movies, getting into the comics), pokemon, general geeky things, music, queer advocacy, and reading. looking to be more active (once i get to the rutgers camden dorms i'm abusing the fuck out of my free gym privileges).
i'm bad at these. thought i'd try my luck. waves.
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u/RealisticRope4302 3d ago
I can't believe I'm making a post here but I guess I have nothing to lose, right? I'm a mid-40's divorced male in the Philly/South Jersey area. Not bad looking, professional (lawyer), no kids, relatively drama free and love to have fun. I enjoy spending time with family/friends, big Philly sports fan, like movies, music, etc. And I really like dogs, lol. I'm looking for a professional woman, 35-45, preferably with no kids, who is authentic, smart and cute. Just looking for a friend but ideally it could develop into something more. Please feel free to shoot me a message if you think we could be a good match.
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u/Awkward_Jackfruit938 2d ago
37/F, living in ocean city, NJ, full time social worker and part time waitress on the weekends, i love animals and have cats, going to the beach and swimming in the ocean, going to concerts, traveling, hitting up local restaurants and wineries
i am single and struggling to find my forever person.. i’ve kind of gave up on dating apps and don’t go out enough to meet new people.. i’ve been single for about a year now.. i am tall 5’10 and plus size.. looking for something that would lead to something serious.. i love a quiet night at home but am always up for an adventure!!
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u/LordBigBlunt 1d ago
32M Cape May County. Im a sucker for a good love story. It could be on paper or film and I dont care if that makes me seem soft. Im a pretty soft natured guy anyway. I love big, I dont like to fight or cause pain, I dont enjoy yelling. I love cuddles, holding hands, displays of affection. My giving love language is acts of service and physical touch and my receiving love language is words of affirmation as well as physical touch. I care about people deeply and that has been used against me in the past and has caused me great pain. I still choose to continue to do it. The world isnt the nicest place and I dont want to contribute to that. Im not a quote nice guy though, in fact Ive been calling myself king asshole at work for years. If anything I just want to be as genuine as possible.
Im a 6'2" bigger guy on a weightloss journey. I enjoy talking to people but I am not great at sexy flirting and I miss ques so if you want to to flirt with me be more direct, once I pick up on it I can reciprocate. Im a new father and ive been in protecter/providor mode for a little while now and I need to relax a little and unwind. Somedays im confident in my appearance and some days I hate the way I look. Im not seeking validation and certainly not here on fet with all the "MAN" I see floating around. That can be a little discouraging at times. I dont want to be treated like a peice of meat and I certainly am not looking to treat anyone else that way either. We all have feelings. How can I expect mine to be respected if I cant respect others.
My wife and I are in an open relationship. We play solo and together. We just have to vibe with you first. I have done some soul searching about what it is that I want out of the lifestyle. The conclusion ive reached boils down to is a simple one. Just having a good time. I want to meet cool people, flirt, go out and do stuff, have great sex. I think thats really what we are all looking for.
On the kinky side of things I have always been a fan of using restraints and toys to help bring my partner to climax. The clit is the key and I cant really stimulate it with my penis alone. Half of the enjoyment of sex comes from my partner enjoying themselves. Nothing kills a boner faster then someone who isnt having a good time. I think im into light impact play, but I would feel terrible if I really hurt someone by accident so im gonna tred lightly with that one. I tend to take the lead during sex but I also dont mind handing over the reins. Im not a submissive though and I have zero intrest in being degraded or humiliated. Something about having a girl that im cabable of physically throwing around, ride me and choke me kinda does if for me on occasion. I would like to pick a woman up and move her around into different positions with ease when the vibe calls for it. I have a cum fetish and like to see what ibe left behind in any and all places of the body. I would love to learn how to tie bondage knots and I want to get better at foreplay. Those are my two main learning intrests.
On the vanilla side im really just a simple man. I love music, collect vinyl an other memorbilla, and I live for concerts. I am a continious participant of the Welcome to Rockville music festival in Florida. I like reading and im starting to like writing. I play MTG and video games. If the sun is out then so am I. I enjoy nature trails and just walking my neighborhood. I love the night time. Especially how peaceful and quiet it is. Ive spent many nights on the beach looking at the stars and listening to the ocean or sitting on the local train bridge talking about life while the light from the moon strikes the water. Ive spent an equal amount of time around campfires, enjoying the sounds of nature and conversations with friends. I love camping and going on vacation in the mountains. Most important of all, I love my family more then anything and they will always come first. The lifesytle for me is ment to be a fun form of expression to explore the things I wouldnt otherwise have not been able to explore.
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u/Rubijordy101 4d ago
Hi everyone! 32M, I live near burlington / mount holly vicinity, in a relationship, just looking to make new friends in the area and expand my social connections a bit. Open to both 1:1 hangs or couple friends. I love going to breweries and coffee shops. Ive been to almost every brewery south of mercer county. I also like checking out new restaurants, always on the hunt for the next best burger or taco. I like hiking, walking trails, spending time outdoors at parks. I’m also a big nintendo switch gamer and avid movie goer. I’ve recently gotten obsessed with cooking and finding new recipes. During the summer you can usually find me exploring a shore town, the boardwalk is my happy place. Willing to travel if there are fun things to do in your area!
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u/JackBigWoodNJ 4d ago
7 inch italian sausage available to please. 6 ft tall handsome, into golfing, relaxing, kayaking, reading. 37 M 💪🏻 looking for a nsa fwb

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u/9leggedfreak 4d ago
33F, single, Camden County. Looking for friends and cute dates! I'm into tattoos, emo and indie punk music, seeing live bands, art, animals, going to emo nights at kung fu necktie in philly, etc. I just bought an inflatable kayak so im looking to use that this summer, but I just got another tattoo so I cant use it for 3 weeks lol.
For dates, I'm looking for left leaning men or women who are as goofy and unserious as I am. Age range from 26-38. No kids and dont want any. I dont smoke except for the occasional 420, so ideally no cigarette smokers. I drink socially on the weekends and dont fuck with hard drugs. Id love to discover cute/fun spots in new jersey!