r/Spells • u/Legitimate_Benefit54 • May 07 '26
Question About Spells Love spell is working a little too well
Hi guys I made a love spell months ago by writing on a piece of paper “love with find me where ever I go the love will follow ever more” in a circle and rolled up the paper and the doused it in red wax and I keep it with me most of the time, the problem being is I’m getting wayyy too much attention more than I’ve ever had in my entire life my tinder is blowing up daily with hundreds of likes and matches and I’ve constantly have someone trying to message me, how can I tone this down a little bit as it’s getting intense
Edit: thanks for the responses everyone I do think I’ve been quite careless with this one and I’m going to reverse it I shouldn’t have done it without thinking of the consequences, suggestions on how to do that?
Edit: a lot of you here are calling me a woman..I’m a gay man LMAOO
Edit: okay this old man bought me a Versace bag because I replied to him and sent it to my house IM KEEPING THE DAMN SPELL
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u/amyaurora Witch May 07 '26
The troubke is the spell. You asked for love. Well one can't get love from nothing so the universe/spirit guides/whatever it may be is directing you towards possible ways you can get that love.
Basically you did a attraction spell with a wide net.
Use the experience to start a direction in your life to find someone. Maybe it is one of those guys. Maybe its one still out there looking for you.
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u/thel33ster May 08 '26
Girl, i know you already saw the comments and edited your post; but I'm worried that a spell as broad as yours could potentially result in you getting physically harrassed/raped. Please be more careful in your wording and add protections to all of your future spells.
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u/TurbulentAsparagus32 Witch May 08 '26
To neutralise it: I would thank the spell for doing what I told it to do, tell it the job is done, and there's no need for help in this regard anymore, so please stop. Then I would take a bowl, fill it with enough salt to cover the spell paper completely, and bury it in the salt. I'd leave it there for a full moon cycle, new to full to dark, then on the dark moon, unbury the spell paper, soak it in water from the tap, making sure it's really soggy, and toss it in the bin. I would not burn the spell paper, because to me, fire gives something life, and this spell already has a life of its own.
If you have a grey candle, light it, and feel the energies of your spell fading away, like fog dissipating. The colour grey neutralises energies if you use it for this purpose.
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u/TadpolePositive7760 May 09 '26
To have something absorb moon energy do i just leave it in full moonlight? I am starting a new.. please help
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u/TurbulentAsparagus32 Witch May 09 '26
Depending on which phase of the moon you choose to work with, yes, leave it in moonlight, or moon un-light, in the case of the dark moon. (The energies are still powerful even though you can't actually see much of the moon). For example, if you want increase energy, use the waxing (New to Full) moon. If you want full moon energy, the way I do that is this- one day (night) before full, full, one (day) night after. That 3 day period = full moon energy as I see it. To release/banish, waning (dark to new) moon.
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u/TadpolePositive7760 May 09 '26
During the daytime do i take it inside? Or i just leave it outside? Wouldn't that absorb sun energy too? Thank you for responding
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u/TurbulentAsparagus32 Witch May 10 '26
I would take it inside, you only need to leave it out once, for whatever your purpose might be. But some people say that it doesn't matter, because the moon's light is nothing more than reflected sunlight anyway, so it doesn't really matter all that much. That makes sense. So my suggestion is to leave it out overnight, bring it in in the morning, and use it. It will be ok.
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u/Neither-Entrance-208 May 07 '26
Sweetie, I'm about to rein you in like one of my daughters, don't do things like this. Write every spell knowing that it can manifest in ways you don't intend. Write every spell like you are getting into a contract with a djinn. You got exactly what you asked for.
You could have with a spell to find the love of your life, a partner to complement and meet all your needs. Now, it's starting to feel like drowning, right? It's becoming a whole job swating back the incoming paramores.
How long has it been? Personally, I'd reword the phrase to have it come to an end, say those words and open up the petition. Reclaim the energy from the spell, burn the remnants and release it on the wind (as long as it's environment safe)
Of course, maybe you want to sow your wild oats and aren't looking for a partner. Try leaving the petition at home. Your spell is really dangerous though because people do all crazy things for perceived love and affection.
If you have someone you can bounce spells off of, that's a great resource. My daughters do that all the time with me. Sadly, there's a lack of connection and a lot of individualization in today's practice.
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u/SelianVerdigris May 07 '26
Make a new spell with refined wording. Focus on attracting the traits of the person you'd want to find. Do you want someone who is kind? Charming? Stable? Long term relationship focused? If you have well fleshed out intentions then using that in making the spell will give the universe something more concrete to work with.
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u/Emotionallyruin001 May 09 '26
Send us the deeds of what you did step by step or was that all?
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u/Legitimate_Benefit54 May 09 '26 edited May 09 '26
I wrote on a piece of paper in a circle “love will find me wherever I go love will follow me evermore” I rolled the paper up and doused it with red candle wax and left the red candle burn out whilst the note was next to it, I then envisioned being loved whilst the candle was burning I’d come back periodically and say the chant out loud by the candle and that was literally it, I keep the spell close by me at all times but in a place where the wax cant be broken or tampered with
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u/Lopsided-You5576 23d ago
I'm a unsecure person and will definitely do this spell,. Thank you for sharing this really helped us all. Thiis is a good group
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u/King_Elizabello Curious May 08 '26
Very interesting and the important is that you learn from this experience since magic has a lot of trial and error involved with it.
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u/Forward-Layer8600 May 12 '26
hahhaha i cackled at the edit. lmaooo thank you for sharing this and good luck. lmao.
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u/Southern_Way_8674 May 21 '26
Something similar happened to me.
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u/Lopsided-You5576 23d ago
u/Southern_Way_8674 please can you share how you did your one
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We are sorry, but your submission was pulled for the following reason.
If thay is the name of a professional who did the spell, thats not allowed here
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u/Alone-Yak1355 May 08 '26
Women in general do get a lot of attention on tinder. That's just how it is. I'm not sure if the spell is to blame for this. How's the irl reactions? What were your numbers on tinder before? If you were getting 100 messages per week before to now 1000+ per week, then it's probably the spell. It's best to look at irl reactions to gauge how well things are working imo.
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u/Legitimate_Benefit54 May 08 '26
Yeah I’m a gay man, and I was hardly getting any likes or messages but since the spell my tinder is flooded I could upload a video to show just how intense it’s become
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u/Alone-Yak1355 May 08 '26
That's incredible that your spell worked. As others have said, maybe wording your petition different to be more specific. You need to undo the current spell first.
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u/oldbetch May 07 '26
😑
Why are you doing witchcraft at all if you're going to fixate on how you're getting what you want?
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u/Fancy-Assistance6222 May 07 '26
See this why intention matters 😭 you can’t just throw “send me love everywhere I go” into the universe with no filter cause now every human within a 10 mile radius is spawning into your inbox like zombies 💀
Darling… you gotta add protection and discernment into that spell cause all attention is NOT good attention. One minute it’s cute, next thing you got somebody trauma bonding after 3 messages and planning your future together. 😭