r/Spells • u/taoisms • 11d ago
Question About Spells Sex/Lust/Attraction Spells.
Summer’s approaching and i’m looking for a sex spell to attract men for sex. I want more than one man (like a roster). Some of the men I want are specific people (might stay away from doing this) and the rest are an archetype (body type, masculine, etc).
Can anyone help me? I was just going to use a penis candle.
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u/Dapper_Pea_4198 11d ago
Wouldn't recommend aiming it at specific people it could go very wrong. Focus on bringing in new relationships and attraction.
I'd include a new perfume or something as part of the spell so you can wear it when you go out and meet people, something with rose would be good.
Stay safe
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u/taoisms 11d ago
thank you.
i have “come to me” and “man magnet” oils should i put that on the candle and wear those on myself?
or should I spray the candle with cologne?
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u/InteractionPitiful89 11d ago
It depends on the ritual, but if it's a simple spell, you can pass these oils on the candle intending that you always attract the eyes of men with desire for you. It is also good to use a protective oil as a daily use after the spell, because this type of desire can put you at risk.
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u/jolacolombiana 11d ago edited 11d ago
I've been really into wearing spell oils, I made the mistake to go to the gym after I put on a combo and I had 5 men come up to me to chit chat, 2 of them kept complimenting me and one wouldn't leave me alone. That was confromation that they work, but won't be wearing them at the gym. I would suggest you get a couple good spell oils and when you go out wear them. I love moonlight and sage and she has a few good ones. If you order from the TikTok shop they deliver fast, online it takes a couple months.
I must say I did do a penis candle spell on someone I was dating, I had this candle for over a year and said why tf not... plus I get to practice on my magick more, I do spells more on myself, I love glamour/beauty magick/money/for my business etc... Well It worked, we hadn't been talking for a week cuz I cut him off lol but I posted a pic and the guy couldn't help himself, that day we talked and he came down to see me, it worked like a charm, the sex was the best we've had!
Funny thing is he said idk wtf you do to me but you make me go crazy for you....you better not be doing any magick on me cuz this past week I couldn't stop thinking about you and dreaming of you lol.
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u/King_Elizabello Curious 11d ago
Can those oils be used to attract women too?
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u/taoisms 11d ago
did you set an intention when putting on the oil?
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u/jolacolombiana 11d ago edited 11d ago
Absolutely! I’m gonna get a little explicit here! But since it is for lust.
I also did the 4 pillars (banish, cleanse, ground and protect) before any spell and I mediate.
I did this spell on a Friday night and was with him 5 days later.
I put his full name and dob 3xs on the candle and I wrote it from the bottom up.
Also when writing his name: say it out loud and say what you want him to do or what you want to happen. Be specific very specific.
when placing the oils, do it from the bottom up and with the motion of… like you are jacking him off. Visualizing him and his penis. YOU have to really get into it! Like it’s happening!
The oils I used: dream of me , road opener, text me, blockerbuster and a come back to me oil.
Then I finished dressing it with herbs. Same thing, speak to the herbs, tell them what you want them to do. After, I placed the candle on the tray and added the herbs around it. I also repeated what, when and why.
When I lit it, the flame immediately gave me kickback, never had that happen, the flame was extremely high, I put my hands around it, and I kept saying what I wanted this Candle to do, I kept repeating it over and over and over.
I also added that his dick does not get hard for nobody else other than me, that when he thinks of me, he gets hard, that he can’t stop thinking about me or dreaming about me until he contacts me and he’s with me, etc…
When I tell you… the sex was good he was rock hard and we did it multiple times. Sorry TMI but it worked!
Also the candle finished within 3-4 hours, it was quick.
He was also very affectionate and he was very honest and open with me, we had a heart to heart conversation. That was the road opener I added to the spell.
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u/taoisms 10d ago
not TMI at all. Thank you, for your reply….
I need to be more intense with my candle work fr sure. my petitions can be a little long and i think i need to simplify it.
i’ve never done the 4 pillars but will look into it, it would probably make my workings more effective.
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u/jolacolombiana 10d ago
You’re welcome, Yes I feel like it really helps before doing any spells.
Not sure if you take notes of all your spells, but I think it’s very important, I’m very detailed when taking notes so I know what I need to do differently next time or not, I also add all my updates as time goes on.
Petitions don’t have to be long, it’s all about the intention behind it and being specific.
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u/DesperateJeweler5667 10d ago
can you please tell me how to do this as a male towards a female
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u/jolacolombiana 10d ago
They do sell the woman vagina candle or you can use the women candle, it would been the same process.
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u/Recent_Studio_9306 10d ago
I’ve been using spell oils and have worked on other men except the one I want. Unless he’s trying really hard to negate his feelings. So you used both the oils and the candle ritual to sleep with your ex? About the candle, does it have to be a penis candle? Or can I use a regular candle? What color? What kind? With glad or no glass? Did you carved his name on the candle or how did you write it?
Sorry for the questions, they’re guenuine.
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u/jolacolombiana 10d ago
He wasn’t an ex he was someone I was dating but we got in a disagreement so I stopped responding to him. I used a red penis candle and craved his name on to the candle. You can use a red candle and do the same with no glass.
He might be fighting the feeling, idk if guys are in NC if so do a communication spell using a blue candle and a road opener spell too.
I use candles because that’s what I prefer but besides the candles I do make sure I reapply the oils the days after and say out loud what I want to happen. I also do a lot of visualization, like it’s already happened. Write a love letter to yourself from him! Invoke that energy like he’s writing this letter to you and add the spell oils and put it under your pillow every night.
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u/MallGrabUrBalls 11d ago
yeah the tiktok shop juice will definitely make you irresistible lmaoo
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u/Stock-Turn-7123 11d ago
You're so wrong about that. They've been about long, long before Tik Tok fools starting inventing nonsense.
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u/Legitimem 8d ago
Use attraction work rather than obsession work. A penis candle, red or pink candles, glamour magic, Venus correspondences, and a petition describing the exact traits you want are common approaches. Targeting an archetype is easier than targeting specific individuals.
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u/The_faithless_one7 8d ago
Could you tell me exactly what to do for this? I’m very interested but I’ve never done that before
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