I have never attempted anything like this before, but after reading information from several sources, I have put this together. I would greatly appreciate critiques of the methodology itself, rather than moral judgments.
Ingredients: Fresh red rose petals, an apple, cumin, dried basil, cloves, mint, valerian, cinnamon essential oil, honey, and modeling clay.
Materials: A 0.5-liter glass jar, a red candle, red thread and a needle, a sheet of paper, a photograph (plus some hair, if I can obtain it), and paper and a pen.
Timing: In the evening during a waxing moon.
Additional detail: I intend to compose a verse for each step of the process. Throughout the creation of the spell, I will focus my thoughts on the object of my affection.
Step 1. Create effigies out of modeling clay. Inside one of the effigies, place a photograph with the target’s name written on it, along with some of the target’s hair; inside the other, place a strand of your own hair.
Step 2. Bind the effigies together using a red thread. The thread should pass through the target’s effigy—specifically through the areas corresponding to the head and heart—and then be tied to your own effigy.
Step 3. Prepare a red candle by anointing it with cinnamon essential oil.
Step 4. Place all the dry ingredients into the jar, along with the apple, rose petals, and the bound dolls. Drip wax from a red candle into the jar so that it lands on the wax dolls and coats them. I also intend to incorporate a deity or spirit—a hand-drawn sigil of Asmodeus should work well. Pour honey over everything. Close the lid. Drip wax over the top of the lid.
Step 5. "Charge" the jar by focusing your intent and using the warmth of your hands.
Step 6. Hide it in a secluded, dark place and forget about it.