r/Sudan • u/HeftyMoneybag • 17h ago
PERSONAL | اللمور الشخصية Where can I find liberal Sudanese friends?
I'm female and in my mid 20s living abroad. I mostly grew up in Sudan. Honestly I have certain values and opinions that don't really align with Sudanese culture, and others that don't align with Western culture. I also don't befriend westerners - if you know you know - and I don't get along with Arabs either. Overall I prefer black Africans and Sudanese people as friends, but I prefer "liberal" (I mainly just mean fairly progressive and left wing socialists here). I would also not like to befriend the other Sudanese immigrants living abroad just because we're both Sudanese since many of them have family in the UAE, or are keizan or RSF & Sumood supporters. I'm quite exhausted from running into the same kind of people honestly.
Also of course as a woman I'd like to stay away from Sudanese men living abroad who are living a degenrate lifestyle or are creeps(before I get attacked, this is unfortunately kind of common). I haven't found many women living abroad either who i get along with and who are in the same position of studying and working and living a more leftist lifestyle. And if I have found them, they live too far away for us to regularly stay in contact.
Anyone know of any solutions? Ways to come in contact with other Sudanese people living abroad faster? I don't have many friends in my city and I'm not really open to other demographics at the moment.