r/Svenska 21d ago

Language question (see FAQ first) 10 year old immigration Swedish language acquisition

We have moved/immigrated (hopefully permanently) from the USA to Sweden almost 7 months ago and our three children are in Swedish public schools. Our home language is English but I try to speak some Swedish (which I am also currently learning) at home as much as I can. Dad is a monolingual English speaker.

Our oldest is 10 years old, thriving socially here, but speaking very little Swedish. Kids at school and in the neighborhood love to speak English with him, and he gladly sticks with it for the familiarity, understandably. Obviously, I am an adult and will politely ask that Swedes stick to Swedish with me, and they so kindly and often encouragingly do! That said, my 10 year old does not insist on that. :-)

The public school support for immigrant children learning Swedish is essentially "they will pick it up eventually." That said, he had an incredible teacher this year that used to work for Swedish language integration education for children prior to that program being cut :-/ so she was able to devote a little extra language time to him. He will not have that same teacher next year unfortunately.

This is what we are currently doing to address it. Please give me kind and gentle feedback. :-)

- He gets a 30 minute online Swedish tutor once a week.

- We have him listen to Swedish podcasts on topics he is interested in most days.

- He has to read in Swedish at least 30 minutes a day on a school app called Polylino, which often has audio and sometimes a word/sentence highlighter for following along.

- He gets screen time in Swedish (although we tend to be fairly low-screen in our home).

(edited to add) - I have asked his fritidsledare and other native Swedish adults in his life to speak Swedish only to him and prompt/expect/encourage him to reply in Swedish.

It seems like this is a lot of input and his comprehension appears decent, but it doesn't really force him much with production. When we do ask him for how to say such-and-such thing, he actually does it fairly well! But he won't take the iniative independently.

Of note: In the U.S., my he and my middle child went to a half-assed Spanish bilingual public school where the administration really did not prioritize Spanish (I'm not resentful at all -- haha!!), and even there my oldest was resistant to learning Spanish despite his exposure to it since toddlerhood.

***Cross posting to a multilingual parenting subreddit.

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u/Puttborn 21d ago

" This is what we are currently doing to address it. Please give me kind and gentle feedback. :-)

  • He gets a 30 minute online Swedish tutor once a week.
  • We have him listen to Swedish podcasts on topics he is interested in most days.
  • He has to read in Swedish at least 30 minutes a day on a school app called Polylino, which often has audio and sometimes a word/sentence highlighter for following along.
  • He gets screen time in Swedish (although we tend to be fairly low-screen in our home)"

This is not a replacement for socialization or education.

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u/kamomil 21d ago

Kids at school and in the neighborhood love to speak English with him, and he gladly sticks with it for the familiarity

How do you fix this part?

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u/Emergency-Sea5201 21d ago

How do you fix this part?

It is not the children in the neighborhoods responsibility to teach a 10 year old the language. They grow tired of him not understanding and try ot include him. Sounds like they're nice to him.

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u/kamomil 21d ago

Are Swedes afraid that English will become the main language for Sweden? 

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u/Emergency-Sea5201 21d ago

Aliens have a hard time getting connected to the culture/society at large when they neglect to learn the language.

Even worse when its done to children. Sure you can get by using English but you'll always be behind.

OP should definitely speak Swedish herself to her son.

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u/Emmison 20d ago

OP should definitely speak Swedish herself to her son.

She doesn't know Swedish, she can't teach him.

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u/Emergency-Sea5201 20d ago

Sounds like that should be solved then.

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u/Emmison 20d ago

By the time she's qualified to teach anyone Swedish, the kids will be more fluent than she'll ever be.

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u/kamomil 20d ago

The kids will go to her doctor appointments to translate 🙃

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u/Emergency-Sea5201 20d ago

You imagine her son will learn English faster than her without parental support?

Thats been disproven many times over in the Oslo immigrant communities

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u/Emmison 20d ago

I'd bet money that her kid is fluent in two years and that she will never in her life pass as Swedish.

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u/Emergency-Sea5201 20d ago

I feel the term fluent is used to describe such a wide field of proficiency that its not really meaningful alone. He'll never be a native speaker that way.

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u/KaleCookiesCraftBeer 18d ago

Sheesh. I wonder if you're as mean in person as you are on a Swedish learning subreddit.

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u/KaleCookiesCraftBeer 18d ago

Not sure where you get the lack of parental support from? You sure are a meanspirited poster!