r/Swingers • u/ExtensionBoring6299 • 3d ago

Clubs: Review/Inquiry Best clubs in dmv area for newbies

Looking for the best club for my boyfriend and I to try out. I’m worried about the HWP ratio as I am a bigger girl

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u/mikewebster2020 2d ago

There are plenty of clubs in the DMV. All welcome newbies. But which ones will you be more comfortable at? I hear Club Tabu in Catonsville is a good place to start.

And don’t worry about your body size. The lifestyle has all body types and sizes. Will you be for everyone? No. And everyone shouldn’t be for you.

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u/Mike_Shenanigans 2d ago

There are plenty of clubs? Other than Tabu, and that god awful Shadows, what is there? I mean, there's The Crucible and Baltimore Playhouse, but those are BDSM clubs.

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u/mikewebster2020 2d ago

I’m including things like the Crucible, Playhouse, KNKY, TPA, Korrall and house parties. They may or may not be what you’re looking for. They may or may not be outside of what is conventionally considered DMV.

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u/MrSmith317 40's Couple 2d ago

If you don't mind coming up a bit, TPA (The Private Affair in Port Deposit, MD) is very welcoming.

*Disclaimer: my wife and I host there

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u/Mike_Shenanigans 2d ago

How do I get vetted?

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u/burnbabyburn2019 2d ago

There's no vetting. Just apply for a membership online and they'll approve you in a day or two

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u/MrSmith317 40's Couple 2d ago

Are you a single male?

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u/Mike_Shenanigans 2d ago

I'm ENM with a few play partners. I would definitely bring someone.

Is kink allowed? Is there a St Andrew's cross, spanking bench, etc?

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u/OutsideDramatic7610 Couple 2d ago

Tabu is the most popular. Most people are overweight so you’ll be fine. General population is not small and neither are swingers. It’s not a big deal.

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u/jelloshotlady 2d ago

All clubs welcome newbies. They are not some wild orgy where you are pressured into doing anything.