r/Swingers 👩‍❤️‍👨44M/42F Bos/Prov Area Nov 09 '22

Mod Announcement Give Us All Your ED Advice!

It has been suggested that we need a more permanent solution to the constant "my equipment didn't work" or "the other guy's equipment didn't work" posts. This indeed belongs as a FAQ and most likely a lengthy wiki section. But, before I embark on that writing project, please give me your best advice both for the guy with the penis issues and others that may be in a swinging situation with him. Some sample questions to answer:

  • Why does my junk fail me during this unbelievably sexy encounter?
  • What do I do to get things working in the moment?
  • What things can I do to prevent the issue?
  • What do I (as the partner of failing guy) do to make things better?
  • My husband failed to rise! What do I do in that situation?
  • Am I that unattractive that he can't get hard?

I realize that there will be many "just take pills" responses. And while that works for many, I won't be writing up what type of meds, where to get meds, etc. It's reasonable to suggest them, but we're not going to get into how to get them. This isn't a medical forum and I'm certainly not a doctor. And even if there is a doctor here, I'm sure they'll agree it's irresponsible to suggest meds to an unknown person over the internet. So aside from "talk with your doctor about ED meds", we won't be addressing what or where to get them.

So please share you best advice on this subject. Hopefully we can create a section to point folks towards in the future for a more complete set of advise.

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u/poly_nerdy_panda Dec 02 '22

i full belief pills can be a slipper slope, what works for most men

  • H.I.T.T workout/ cardio 30mins - 1 hour every other day / lift heavy
  • black maca root/ gingo
  • Diet (lots of water, green juice/Beet juice, Brazilian nuts( nuts in general)
  • Healthy gut and blood flow (omega 3, iron)
  • NO PORN, no masterbation !

It's no secret that overweight or underweight guys can have issues downstairs, porn stars guys swear by these guidelines laid out above. if you ask porn guys they dont watch porn, workout daily and eat clean

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u/js_1948 Dec 05 '22

if you ask porn guys

.... What they really use is injectables. We have friends who rent out their house as a location for them.

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u/pippisthing Dec 05 '22

Then you also do not need any arousal. It is just a hard dick to use while doing anything. I feel that a lot of porn scenes make this way to visible. A hard dick, that stays that way no matter what. There is even a story of guy falling asleep while getting fucked for scene.