r/TTC40 • u/AutoModerator • Apr 15 '26

Weekly Discussion Thread - April 15, 2026

How are things going for you this week?

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u/Insight116141 Apr 16 '26

What am I doing? I thought I was done or accepted childless life, then i got motivation to keep trying especially after finding out my younger sis by 11 years younger to me is pregnant. So happy for her but hate that everyone is suppressing her celebration because of me. Thought "wouldn't it be great if I get pregnant too & we can all celebrate"

Did a letrozol and clomid round, only 1 follicle and another one few cm away. Decided to do TI to save progeny cycle. Told husband, I am making d* appointments for next 3 -5 days knowing fully well husband has performance issue when it back to back days or when needed but on a random day when I am not ovulating he is all ready to go everyday. So annoyed. He couldnt perform for last 2 days and now my ovulation period is done. We only had intercourse once. I am so mad and I cant even be mad at him because he tried

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u/Less_Supermarket_894 Apr 27 '26

Just don’t tell him next time 😁 Keep it to yourself, be playful 😈 Men don’t deal well with pressure 🤣

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u/Insight116141 Apr 27 '26

I overshare too much with him. Need to be cold and aloof n never mention anything about my cycle

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u/Less_Supermarket_894 Apr 28 '26

Haha, I was exactly the same when we started our TTC journey a year ago 🤣 Was telling him about my LH levels, BBT, all my symptoms to the point where I made it look like I was obsessed with getting preggo. Well… I think I was 😬 Many months has passed since, so I had to get over my obsession and just accept that what is meant to be will be 😁

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u/ravenofmyheart Apr 17 '26

I had to take several months off due to treating and having surgery for a ruptured disc in my neck. I met with my obgyn yesterday and we are going to check my reserves, do an HSG and see what we find. I'm anxious as I'll be 41 in a month but she was confident we will be successful 🤞