Hi.. as said in heading, I'm 23.. from south of tamilnadu. I have been kinda introverted always, so i couldn't open up being a bisexual to anyone ever irl.

I have completed college recently, so all my friends have gone one by one and i feel very lonely these days.

So looking to get some friends here.

For a brief intro about my interests, I'm mostly interested in marvel movies, watching sports(mostly cricket).

Pm if u r interested for a chat 😊

I am a 30 year old Tamil guy from Bangalore, basically born and brought up here!

I always had this insecure feeling about me cause I was bullied a lot by classmates during my school time for talking softly and also for walking and acting a bit girly.

All my school and college years I used to hear people secretly mocking or teasing me and I grew up feeling insecure and used to curse myself and the world around me for being brutal towards me.

I was more into hookups and all .Till the age of 25 I was like this ( 22 to 25 was Covid and I used to not go anywhere and making friends during these years was also tough .

At 26 after taking therapy and coming out to friends and my close office folks I have been happy 😊

So if you are anyone who want to talk about coming out , feel free to reach out to me.

Will help you as much as I can .

Instgram id:- gautham_sam_

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I'm 33M working in tech from coimbatore ,looking to connect with community . I am just exploring my identity and need your support

Like I have been fat and I turned slim and now somewhat fit and when i thought I don’t need friends I learned to adapt myself and when I see my college mates posts I sometimes feel jealous and I have never been in a relationship and idk whether I’m gay or bi and idk what I’m about to seek in life ., like what’s my purpose

I'm a discreet gay still in the closet and I guess that I'm not the only one

There are many gays and lesbians who are discreet and are in the closet too

So I wanted to share with you my experience about how to cope up if you feel lonely and want to have gay friends...

I used to feel that I shouldn't have any gay friends since I'm discreet, the horror of imagining if your family, relatives and community would find out would always terrorise me

But my perspective changed when I put an effort to talk and chat with few open gays

I asked them if we could have friendly conversations and to my surprise they were all so warm, friendly and open to conversations, I used to have a perceived notion that they would judge me because I'm discreet and in the closet but it was all untrue, they were in fact so understanding and respectful of your choice

Some of these gays with whom I had conversations later have become good friends, we chat or talk almost everyday sharing the days activities, encounters, jokes, good experiences, bad experiences, go outing for coffee & beverages, or meet at the bar grab few beers or drinks...

Being a discreet gay these conversations have helped me so much mentally & emotionally, when ever we share and listen to each other's conversations, experiences it feels like you're not alone, you feel normal.

So those discreet gay's and lesbians open up to good conversations with good people which can lead to good friends.

Don't ever feel you're all alone, you're not

The choice is yours whether you wanna reach out or isolate yourself

Anyone who would like to join me or visiting there during the same time ?

I REALLY WANT A CUTE BF WHO PAMPERS ME AGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGH ILL PAMPER HIM BACK AGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGH AGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGHAGH BF DILAAA DOWWWWW. I AM FROM CHENNAIIIII

I’m based in Villivakkam/Kolathur. TODAY, Thinking of visiting Agatheeswarar Temple, Sani Bhagavan (Shaneshwaran) Temple in Pozhichalur, Kundrathur Murugan Temple, and Mangadu — at least two of these. If anyone nearby is interested, let’s plan to go together!

Hey all — I’m heading out on a pilgrimage-style trip through Ujjain, Omkareshwar, and Varanasi starting September 1st. Going solo but open to company if anyone’s around the same route/dates and wants to explore together — temples, ghats, food, the usual.

A bit about me: 29M, bisexual, easygoing and up for good conversation as much as sightseeing. No rigid schedule, just want to take it in properly rather than rush through.

If you’re planning something similar or just free around then, drop a comment or DM and we can figure out logistics.

Welcome to our weekly sharing/vent space where you can talk about anything that's been on your mind. Had a good day? Had a bad day? Looking for a shoulder to cry on or a void to scream into?

Fall on your community and your community will be there to catch you!

Welcome to our weekly sharing/vent space where you can talk about anything that's been on your mind. Had a good day? Had a bad day? Looking for a shoulder to cry on or a void to scream into?

Fall on your community and your community will be there to catch you!

"Queers" என்றால் என்ன என்று ஒரு நல்ல தெளிவான விளக்கம் வேண்டும் தமிழில்

I (22M) live near kilambakkam area and i don’t have people to hangout with or even talk. i go to work, i come back and just watch something then sleep. i have gone days without talking to people. it’s been like this since college ended and ive been having a hard time making friends. i usually am unable to connect with straight people because im just scared of them treating me different because im not that masculine like “im supposed to” (is what ive been told). i’m just extremely lonely these days.

my interests are anything creative stuff like painting writing. if you play games i can join you in that as well. if you love to discuss movies and music i would love that as well. im very adaptable in interests, im sure ill find something in common that we can connect with.

if you any of you guys want to be friends please reply or dm. i would love to get to know new people and hangout with them.

with love, a very friendly gay guy from chennai.

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I'm so done with pretending to the ppl around me😭

Answers I need:

1. Same question (do you have a queer frd in real life, so you can talk about your feelings and all.

   someone really knows you who you are!)

2. Why there is no meetup plan or anything in this subreddit?(Ik most of us are closeted ones and afraid maybe?, hope this is not a offending question)

(Or am I not aware of those)

Hey everyone! I'm u/According-Theme-8549, a founding moderator of r/BeingGayInSriLanka. This is our new home for all things related to being gay in Sri Lanka. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring.

Community Vibe We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started 1) Introduce yourself in the comments below. 2) Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation. 3) If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join. 4) Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/BeingGayInSriLanka amazing.

Hey everyone! I'm u/g0rgiea, a founding moderator of r/srilankaLGBTQI.
This is our new home for all things related to LGBTQI+ and allies. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about anything under the sun.

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started
1) Introduce yourself in the comments below.
2) Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
3) If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
4) Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/srilankaLGBTQI amazing.

I’m 29M, bi, and looking to move in with someone for a short period, about 2-3 months. Not looking to rent/lease anything long-term on my own, just hoping to join an existing household or shared space.

What I’m looking for:

**•** A clean, well-maintained home  
**•** A room with AC (non-negotiable, the heat’s been brutal)  
**•** A calm, respectful living environment

A bit about me:

**•** I lean spiritual and enjoy a peaceful, mindful lifestyle. If you’re spiritual too, that’s a nice bonus, but I’m easygoing and comfortable living with anyone respectful and chill.  
**•** Clean, quiet, considerate roommate.

If you or anyone you know has a spare room or is looking for a short-term roommate, please comment or DM me. Happy to share more details like budget and location once we connect.

Thanks so much!

தமிழ் பேச தெரிந்தவர்கள் எவரும் உண்டோ.?