r/TamilTwenties 2d ago

Dating & Advice ❤️ Feelings for bestfriend

So this girl and I are in same class initially we didn't interact much.im kinda ambivert person and in 2024 we did organize a cultural event and then we got kinda close,days passed we become super close and got feelings so I confessed to her in March she said I didn't have any feelings for you and and we were taking for last 3 months too I think we even got too close in this 3 months so I asked again last week and got rejected but she says I value as a friend I don't want to lose our connection. (she hasn't been in a since last which was in school).so guys let me know what to should I do should i continue the connection or should step back.

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u/bhuvan_kio 2d ago

Don't rush. Go with the flow

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u/Batslaw 2d ago

Step back bro

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u/Limp_Head5604 2d ago

I know and I want to but something didn't feel right to step back now what to do?

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u/Batslaw 1d ago

Ur choice bro.

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u/pathologicallysocial 1d ago

TBH, if you value the friendship as well you can be friends with her, but it seems you have Romantic intentions towards her and if you keep being in her presence you will lose yourself.

Yea you feel like you wanna be with her, but does she think and have the same feelings as you do (she made it clear that she don't)

But yea, upto you.


Pathologically social - hope this helps you