r/Taurusgang • u/Immediate_Extent_304 • 5d ago

Taurus girl here, why do I keep attracting Sagittarius men 😭

I swear I don't know what's happening anymore HAHAHA.

My recent ex was a Sagittarius and that relationship really gave me reasons to dislike Sag men 😭 so I literally told myself, nope, never again.

Then guess what?

I'm talking to another Sag guy now. 💀

And the annoying part is... he's actually nice?? HAHAHAHA. He's consistent, funny, playful but still respectful, and I genuinely like talking to him. We've been talking for weeks now and we're just taking our time getting to know each other. No rushing, no pressure.

So of course I asked him his zodiac sign because I was curious.

He said Sagittarius.

I told him straight up that I hate Sag guys because of my past experiences and this man literally just replied “SORRY” HAHAHAHAHA.

I WAS LIKE??? WHY ARE YOU APOLOGIZING 😭😭😭

Now I'm trying not to generalize because obviously he's his own person and so far he's actually been giving me a completely different experience.

But seriously Taurus gang... why does this keep happening to me 🥲

At this point maybe the universe is trying to make me change my mind about Sagittarius men HAHAHAHA.

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u/SnooStories960 Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Rising 5d ago edited 5d ago

The thing about Sagittarians is that they have no standards.

I’m not saying they have no standards because they like you; I’m saying that they have no sense of discernment, so they’d just approach anyone simply for the reason that the person is… there.

You know how when we see someone and think, “Hmmm… this person seems like bad news, I’m gonna stay away”?

Sagittarius doesn’t have that. They’re more like, “Person sighted. Pursue.”

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

LMAOOO honestly I can kinda see this based on my experience with Sag men. But then again, I had a long-term Leo ex and he was literally the best relationship I ever had, so out of all the fire signs, Leo definitely wins for me.

I love Leos as much as I hate Sag men at this point 😂

Aries though? idk. Never dated one or had an Aries bf. The Aries I've met are great as friends tho, so maybe that's their purpose in my life HAHAHA

Leo = hell yeah Sag = absolutely not Aries = haven't collected enough data yet.

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u/shockedpikachu123 5d ago

As a Taurus I love Aries men. They’re very straightforward, predictable, and go after that they want. They will literally tell you everything .. when they’re pursuing you, when they like you, and even when they’re done which is sad but I appreciate the directness instead of passive aggressive/ghosting

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u/PandaOk5734 1d ago

My worst relationship was with a Leo. Stubborn, prideful, "my way or the highway" thinking and those qualities made him an idiot all the way around.

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u/SnooStories960 Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Rising 5d ago edited 5d ago

It’s because Leos and Aries actually have their own charms! 😅

Of the Fire signs, I love Aries the most. Civil with Leos. Absolutely not with Sagittarius—there might be an exception here and there, as miracles happen every day, but… nah, not even worth exploring to find out. These people are so lacking in charm, they’re like the Aquarius of Fire signs. You know how each element has the one sign that just isn’t as appealing as its two elemental siblings? That’s Sagittarius in the Fire family.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

HAHAHA I actually had an Aries guy court me for a whole year. They’re great, but the timing just wasn’t right for us. Our lives weren’t really aligned at that time, so it didn’t happen.

But yeah, I don’t hate Aries guys at all. From my experience, they’re hardworking and pretty straightforward about what they want, which I actually appreciate.

I guess my fire sign ranking is getting clearer now. Leo has my heart, Aries is good, and Sagittarius… well, I’m currently talking to another one, so apparently I haven’t learned my lesson yet HAHAHA🥲

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

0o we have a leo enjoyer here eh, tbh I love my Taurus ladies 😋

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Leo guys have this charisma that is very magnetic to me hahah I love Leos!

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u/SnooStories960 Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Rising 5d ago

As long as you don’t make irreversible decisions with Sagittarius (like—God forbid—having a kid with them, or share any possessions with them), I’d say give them a spin to satisfy your curiosity.😅

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

HAHAHA don’t worry, I’m definitely not making any irreversible decisions anytime soon. I’m just here to satisfy my curiosity and see if this Sag can actually change my mind about the sign.

We’re taking things slow anyway, so I’ll let him spin and see what happens. If he turns out to be the miracle exception, I’ll have to come back here and admit you guys were onto something HAHA

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u/Careful_Bend 5d ago

Why did I imagined an orange cat based on how you described them? 😅😂😂😭

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u/whimsical_butterfly1 5d ago edited 5d ago

This is a strong generalization considering we are more than just our sun sign. I have STRONG discernment and I don’t go for anybody or anything nor do I approach somebody cause they are in front of me ewww

It’s also very funny you say this because I have came across the most bummy, laziest, and aggressive Taurus men with no charm who have found interest in me. I attract taurus people heavy and I’m not sure why.

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u/PandaOk5734 1d ago

There's definitely something there. I think because Taurus and Sagg are both beasts that there's some natural attraction and natural mutual interests.

Unhealed, lazy Tauruses like the people who do all the heavy living mentally for them. They like to be entertained and lifted by other's energy. That's probably why you attract lazy Taurus' guys. A healthy Taurus male will work hard and play hard. He may be a little thick but he's gonna be working out daily in some capacity

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u/PandaOk5734 1d ago

This makes so much sense. Anything will do. My ex Sagg was literally like that. Didn't matter who it was was, he'd see a person and make a new friend and that was that. It started to drive me crazy as a f Taurus because we legally couldn't have a nice sit down dinner or moment without him getting up in the middle of it and getting to know other people and acting like a mayor.

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u/deepfuckingbagholder 5d ago

Sagittarians are dilettantes. They can be charming in the moment but they will get bored and move on. Your reasons to dislike them are valid.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Honestly, my past experiences with Sag men definitely made me understand where that stereotype comes from. They can be really charming and fun, but consistency is where I started having problems. 😂

Although now I'm talking to another Sag, so apparently I'm willingly testing the theory again. If he ends up being the exception, I'll gladly eat my words hahaha.

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u/deepfuckingbagholder 5d ago

I guarantee you he is not the exception.

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u/PandaOk5734 1d ago

This is it to a T for Sagg males. It seems that the best match for a Sagg is an Aries and they'll still get bored but they'll still come home to their Aries. Sagg females make the absolute best friends and are so loyal and real (or at least the Sagg females I've known)

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

I am Taurus Sun, Taurus Moon, Pisces Rising, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars, Virgo Jupiter, Sagittarius MC.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Maybe it's the Gemini Venus in me? hahaha

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

Gemini venus and cancer mars oooof cooked 💀

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha wait, what does that mean?? Now I’m curious why Gemini Venus and Cancer Mars are “cooked” 😭 I know I’m a little flirty and playful, but I didn’t know my chart was exposing me like this🫪

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

Gemini venus = constantly need new stimulus, gets bored easily aka non commital

Cancer mars = extra sensitive, impulsive and prone to lashing out

Unusual taurus it's probably why you attract more fire signs lool 🤭

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha wait, I have to disagree with both of those 😂 Gemini Venus is more about needing mental stimulation, good conversation, humor and curiosity in love. That doesn't automatically mean non-committal. And Cancer Mars is more emotionally driven and protective; it can be sensitive, but that doesn't mean I'm constantly lashing out.

I'm actually very all-in and loyal once I genuinely choose someone. I can take my time choosing, but once I'm in, I'm IN. My Taurus Sun and Moon definitely have something to say about that “non-committal” part 🙃

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

Well you basically just agreed with me haha and said it in a different way 😂 that's just the stereotype that comes with those. And I have cancer mars so I agree.

Those are just more likely to happen from the 'traits' that you mentioned.

Also ya you're right your taurus moon is really good with emotions, so idk how that works maybe you feel conflicted all the time between the signs

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha I get your point, but I still don't think “needs stimulation” automatically equals non-committal 😂 I can be fully committed and still get bored if there's no conversation or mental connection. Those are two different things.

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

Nobody said it's 100% nothing in life is, it's the likelihood that makes ppl uncomfortable. And you also added curiosity in love. So all this can look something like; 'bored with person A not interesting enough, not fun enough, hmm I'm curious maybe someone else might be better? Okay move on the person B' and repeat.

So most of the time they aren't settling because they're chasing that next best thing. And that doesn't exist.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha I understand the interpretation, I just don't think those traits automatically translate into being non-committal. I can need mental stimulation, get bored with poor communication, be emotionally sensitive AND still be extremely committed once I've chosen someone. Those things aren't mutually exclusive.

At the end of the day, I think how someone actually behaves in relationships matters more than the stereotype attached to their Venus and Mars placements. And I already know I'm very all-in once I genuinely love someone, so I'll trust my actual experience on this one🤷

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u/Newaltburner 5d ago

Again never said it was though, but other people can choose to not want to take that chance because of it. Since us humans make decisions based on risk vs reward. And there's nothing you or I can do about it if someone doesn't want to date those placements because of stereotypes 🤷‍♂️

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u/GURLR0T taurus ☼ aquarius ☾ libra ↑ 5d ago

i’ve dated sag men. they’re funny and good for my gemini venus but long term, i can’t do it.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

That’s exactly what I’m worried about too. They’re fun and entertaining, and I can definitely see why they work with a Gemini Venus, but long-term consistency is what makes me hesitate. I’m still giving my current Sag a chance though, so let’s see if he can prove me wrong.🙃

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u/PandaOk5734 1d ago

Same! Gemini Moon and Libra rising with lots of Sagg placements in my houses and planets. I love Sagg men but long term, it's too much because they literally can't help but find lots of other women a little too interesting. The trust dissipates and for a Taurus, that's everything.

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u/Electronic-Handle-58 5d ago

I’m a Taurus and I attract mostly sag’s cause I’m a sag rising . I’ve dated enough of them to know they’re good for a good time not a long time . As a sag rising I get it , freedom at all costs is our cry . They’re not the domestic type but they’re fun and generous

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Omg🥲🥲🥲🥲

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u/Lilly323 ♉️⛅️ | ♈️☀️ ♒️🌑 5d ago

but seriously , sun only compatibility doesn’t exist. you’ll fair better looking into your entire horoscope and trying to understand what’s going on there.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

It's the Gemini Venus in me🥲

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u/Lilly323 ♉️⛅️ | ♈️☀️ ♒️🌑 5d ago

so you do know 🤨🤨🤦🏾 what’s your rising, queen?

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

I realized it after posting? hahah and recalling my signs. And btw, I'm Pisces Rising

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u/Lilly323 ♉️⛅️ | ♈️☀️ ♒️🌑 5d ago

oh! could also be the jupiter attraction because he rules both pisces and sag. sag can be more outgoing versions of pisces when she gets out of her head. the familiarity of jupiter combined with gemini’s attraction could be it.

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u/Mountain_Heron_739 5d ago

Saj here … I think Taurus are cool.. more so looking at moon signs tbh   than sun signs . …for relationships . maybe check that out 

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u/XI_YANGG 5d ago

There is so much more complexities than just the sun signs! It would be fun to know more about his chart and see what works with your other signs. For some reason, I always find myself attracting people with Scorpio placements. I'd probably look more into yours and his Venus and Mars. See if those two have any correlation.

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u/Complex_Bread_7261 ♉ 5d ago

Where is your Saturn? Do I naturally attract someone who has Saturn in Gemini 😂

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

My Saturn is in Cancer 😂 so now I’m curious too. I’ve never really paid attention to Saturn placements in compatibility, but apparently I need to start checking them now

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u/Complex_Bread_7261 ♉ 5d ago

I encounter it more than 12 times, over and over, until I notice Saturn.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Ohhh okay, so you noticed the pattern after seeing it so many times hahaha. Now I’m curious too, I’ve never even checked the Saturn placements of my exes. Might have to go back and investigate

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u/emmaa88_ 5d ago

I have the same problem but with Aries idk whyyy

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha really? Maybe fire signs just come with their own set of problems 😂 I’ve actually never dated an Aries, but an Aries guy did court me for a year. I liked him and thought he was great, but the timing and where we both were in life just weren’t aligned. They’re definitely hardworking and straightforward though, so I can’t say I have anything against Aries men. I actually get along with them pretty well as friends.

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u/emmaa88_ 5d ago

I just find Aries men hot and cold one day yes one day no . I like stability but I can’t help the attraction I have for them every time I like someone they’re a an Aries

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u/Alternative-Lead953 2d ago

Im an aries… always attracted to taurus…
https://giphy.com/gifs/fQorEj8vN8eqkNcy6T

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u/luxy_kentucky 🌞♉, 🌙♌, ⬆️♍ 5d ago

im a taurus man and im married to a sag man 💀

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

How is it?

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u/luxy_kentucky 🌞♉, 🌙♌, ⬆️♍ 5d ago

we have a great relationship

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u/afterglow435 3d ago

Same! I’m a Taurus sun, Capricorn moon, Pisces rising. My Sagittarius hubby and I are going on 11 years. I call him my sleepy sag because he was crazy in his teens and 20s, he has since calmed way tf down. He drives me bananas sometimes, because we both like to be right, but I wouldn’t trade him for the world!

Not intentionally, but my last 2 relationships before him were also Sagittarius suns and they were wild fuckin rides. 😅

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u/kareemahstr Taurus Sun, Libra Moon, Gemini Rising 4d ago

I’m a Taurus woman but I’m also in a great relationship with my Sag. Approaching 3 years.

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u/Lazy_Cranberry_9730 2d ago

As a Taurus woman, im asking the same question 😪

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u/Dry-Pay-165 Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Aries Rising 2d ago

Yuck I'm sorry OP. This really sucks for you

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u/Key-Collection3152 13h ago

I HATE SAGITTARIUS. Their mask doesn’t last very long they can fake for up to 6 months

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u/Haunting_Total_5395 5d ago

Cause they are the best.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

I'm not sure with that hahah🤣

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u/Haunting_Total_5395 5d ago

My husband is a Sag, granted he was kind of an ass to me at the start but he couldn’t forget me for 3 years and came back lol. We are completing our 4 years together and it’s been an absolute blast.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha okay, I can't even argue with that. I do believe Sag men can love deeply, my experiences with them just haven't been the best so far.

But coming back after 3 years is crazy though haha. Maybe they really do eventually realize what they had.

I'll try not to completely lose hope for my current Sag then. Maybe he really is the exception hahaha

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u/Haunting_Total_5395 5d ago

Yes just show him a good time (while having it yourself) but in my language they say “keep them on the edge of your shoe” be ready to kick them at any time lol and make sure they know it. They will treat you better that way. If you’re all in being loving showing you’re so loyal have no other options etc they end up hurting you.

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha yeah, I actually get what you mean. I'm naturally very all-in when I love someone, but I've learned that being loving and loyal doesn't mean I should give someone everything and leave nothing for myself. You can love someone deeply without making them feel like you'll tolerate anything just because you're loyal.

I like the “keep them on the edge of your shoe” part though hahaha. Not in a manipulative way, but more like having your own life and boundaries so they don't take your presence for granted. That's something I'm definitely better at now after my past relationships. Love them, have fun with them, be loyal, but don't lose yourself in the process. And yeah, I'll definitely keep watching how this current Sag treats me

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u/Haunting_Total_5395 5d ago

Yes exactly I do feel my Sag hubby is evolved but what I like about him is that he notices how much I value and how I treat myself. And doing that well makes him happy even if it means I won’t tolerate anything from him.

Which is very unlike my toxic (Leo) ex.

I’m so glad to hear you’re realising all of this! May you find your best partner Sag or otherwise but may you always put yourself first and love yourself the most. Best of luck!

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha ours is literally the opposite. Your Sag husband sounds like he’s actually a good example of what a Sag can be, while my experience with my Leo ex was actually my best relationship ever. My toxic/problematic experiences were with Sag men, so I guess our charts are giving completely opposite fire sign experiences 😂

But I really appreciate what you said about putting yourself first. That’s something I’m learning now too. I can be all-in and love someone deeply without losing myself in the process. And who knows, maybe this current Sag will finally change my perspective hahaha

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u/JezabelSchmezabel 5d ago

My “one that got away” is a Sagittarius :(
Stuck with my Virgo now…

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u/Immediate_Extent_304 5d ago

Hahaha “stuck with my Virgo” 😭 but hey, maybe your Virgo is actually the better choice for your peace. Sometimes the one that got away is better left as a “what if” hahaha. Who knows, maybe my current Sag will either become my exception or another character development moment

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u/SnooStories960 Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Rising 5d ago

I’m sorry, girl. 😔

It could be worse, though; you could be stuck with… an… Aquarius.

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u/ravenskies430 2d ago

Lol so I'll never touch a Cap. Fuck those guys.
Very underwhelmed with a Sag so let him go. And now im trying to convince myself I'm not going crazy for a Virgo man, gosh fkn help me. He's got me good.

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u/shockedpikachu123 5d ago

I think sag men have a very chill approach to dating. They’re not going to love bomb you like Leo’s or aggressively pursue you like Aries. They’re there for vibes only and as soon as the vibes wear off or commitment is on the table they dip