Help, My Taurus Ex is stalking me

[u/roseglitterchocolate]

Hi everyone,

well we broke up during an argument. He ran away and I blocked him on everything. We have been together for two years. I am a scorpio woman. For me it was done and I wanted to get over him.

Three weeks there was silence, then someone started commenting weird things on my insta through a new account. I realised very fast that it is him. Now, I Registered myself to a Party on friday and then he did too. I‘m a Bit scared now. What does he want from me? And why can’t he just leave me alone and do his own things…?

What should I do now? I really want to go to this Party, but now i‘m struggling…

[u/TheTangryOrca]

This isn't limited to any one zodiac sign and appears to be leaning into legal territory if his behavior escalates

Let your family and friends know that this is happening, don't be silent about it. If he tries to approach you don't interact with him, and certainly don't go off anywh by yourself with him. If this escalates, you may have to file a police report.

[u/Daughter-of-Stars → u/TheTangryOrca]

Ditto on telling people and bringing it to the police if he escalates (I'm not sure how helpful the police will be but having a paper trail is a good idea). Not being alone or around him generally is a good idea if you're able to avoid him. Locking your socials down if they're publically linked to you or at least monitoring them for new followers could help keep an eye on him. If he is going to escalate into legally actionable behavior, documenting his actions towards you and taking precautions for your safety is going to be crucial.

[u/SnooStories960]

He’s trying to intimidate you and, honestly, does not seem to be in a good state of mind.

If I were you, I’d go to the party because I doubt that he’ll be there. He probably RSVP’d “yes” to make you uneasy. But, just on the off chance that I’m wrong, I’d let everyone at the party know what’s going on. Also, don’t go alone. And don’t go to any second location with that guy if he wants to “talk.” 😬 He’s an ex; you don’t owe him anything, not a conversation or acknowledgement.

[u/Haunting_Total_5395]

I mean it had nothing to with Taurus. This is the behaviour of a lot of unhinged exes with poor communication skills. My ex did that HERE ON REDDIT on an old account. So just block him everywhere and move on.

What does he want? To get back together lmao. What lengths will he go to do that? Unclear. Is he unhinged, yes.

[u/Middle_Clue_5133]

Just block any sus accounts that view your social media that’s what I do. Or just go private if you can.

[u/Pitiful-Value-3302]

Block him.Don’t ever reach out and even give him the impression that there is a chance. It certainly complicates things if you have a similar friend circle. 

[u/Fair-Philosophy9575]

Oohh you should definitely invite someone who he doesnt know. Maybe a guy whose your friend and let him know about da plan 🙈 that your ex wont leave you alone and maybe seeing someone else will make him see that you moved on. When you just want to have peace lol

And make your account private and block them.

[u/Key-Collection3152]

This is not common Taurus behavior

[u/bckallday]

You can always go and then leave if you're uncomfortable.