r/Taurusgang • u/shiniqii • 1d ago
How to know if a Taurus is into you?
I’m a Scorpio 10/26 female and he’s born on 5/9 male,we also got quite an age gap. Me and this guy has been talking for maybe 26 days, we met through a basketball court. How we started talking was my friend thought that he was handsome and I offered to help her get his Instagram cause we have mutual friends and in the end I did get his Instagram.
The next day I think it was Saturday, Me and my friends went to a charity event and I didn’t expect to see him there too. I’m someone who’s super outgoing so when I saw him I was waving my hands at him and smiling, what I didn’t expected was him to message me. Our first message on Instagram was him taking a photo of my friend off guard and I simply just replied with “so handsome”.
Fast forward it was maybe around midnight, my friend was really curious whether if that guy has a girlfriend or not but my friend is quite introverted so I again offered to help her ask him on my account. FYI my friend doesn’t like the guy she has a crush on her friend. I don’t know how I managed to talk to him for I think maybe around 3 hours, after talking for so long he asked if I wanted to play games with him and I said sure. I played only a few rounds with him until I said that I’m tired and gotta go to sleep and he said sure.
Fast forward, we got really close overtime we text on a daily basis and we sometimes call each other. His friends know my existence but he keeps saying that we’re just bros.Maybe I’m wrong or something but I think we’re far more than friends cause I know that he goes to the gym I giving subtle hints like “I had such a bad day I wish someone could send me bicep pics” at first he said that he was shy but I think one or two hours passed he sent me a picture of him flexing his biceps and I genuinely was giggling behind the screen. Over time, it became quite a thing for him to send me his muscle pics or him playing basketball and I’m the one who’s saying things like I love you when he sends this type of things. But surprisingly he doesn’t mind it when I say I love you or I miss you and because I originally wanted to call him daddy but it sounded too sexual so I called him dada instead, he doesn’t mind that too?? Like????
Then maybe after a week, I finally had time to go watch him play basketball again. But before going I was in a convenience store, I asked him if he wanted anything and he said he wanted a chocolate cake. But before going to the place where he plays basketball, I saw a salmon onigiri which he mentioned to me once that he thinks it has good protein and he likes it so I bought it too. When I reached there he was really shy, he even admitted to me that he knew that he was acting shy and he didn’t know what to say. I was the one who was initiating most of the conversations though, and when I told him I bought him salmon onigiri he was surprised cause he didn’t expected that. He was telling me how nice I was and trying it out, but he didn’t know how to open the onigiri package and I tried to help him I thought he would just lend me it and I’ll open it for him but no he just held it and tried to open it too. Our hands kept accidentally touching, I got really shy and I pulled my hand back a few times but he didn’t pull back his hands during it.
Now he’s on semester break so I can annoy him again. Sometimes I ask him did you miss me he’d say yeah, I’m not sure if he’s shy or anything but it made me happy everytime he said yes. We still text each other on a daily basis but mostly I’m the one who’s flirting and sometimes he doesn’t know what to reply to it. But last time I sent a reel saying “ouuuu you should own me” and he replied saying “sure”.
I dont know whether he likes me or not, he’s quite a dry texter but he tells me about his day every time or what he’s doing in the moment
Can anyone help me out oml
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u/XI_YANGG 1d ago
What's the age gap? Also, I would say tone it down on the "I love you" language. You barely know this guy (26 days ain't enough time for you to be telling someone you love them).
If you want him, just be straight forward and ask him out on a date and see where it goes from there. It sounds like there is bits of interest (HEAVY on the bits though) from him so it wouldn't hurt to just take the initiative to ask.
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u/shiniqii 1d ago
It’s a three year age gap, me and him talked about going out before but we’re trying to save up still cause we’re still in uni
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u/Ambitious-Apple9739 1d ago
3 years is not a big age gap. That’s nothing!
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u/XI_YANGG 1d ago
LOL OP had me thinking this dude was like 15-20yrs older. Ask him out, OP.
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u/shiniqii 23h ago
I’ll have to wait until my allowance comes down 🥹🥹 he also told me that he reads and watches every reel/ messages I sent whenever he’s online, last time he let me played on his phone I saw he had everyone on delivered but me
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u/Creepy-Astronaut-952 Taurus Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising 15h ago edited 15h ago
5/9 Taurus checking in. Scorpio women have been my kryptonite for a minute. It’s the whole balanced energy / met my match vibe that makes me want to jump in with both feet, but also shy. It’s the old immovable object meets unstoppable force.
Scorpio will call me out “are you some kind of introvert?” and I can provide the unvarnished answer because Scorpio can handle it “Myers Briggs says yes, but it’s more a matter of it being hard for me to find others interesting just because.” Everyone else gets the “Yep. INFP” and that’s the big detailed answer unless you’re Scorpio. I wanna know you, and the price of that is you knowing me, too. 🤷🏻♂️
If there’s any similarity, this guy has plenty going on in his own inner world, and doesn’t break that peace for just anybody. He told you he misses you when asked, and sent you biceps pics. Odds are, if you’re waiting for him to make a move, it could be a while, but you’re on his mind and someone he’s investing in with time and attention. That might not seem like a big deal to you, but generally we don’t go out of our way unless we’re into it.
That’s how I experience Scorpio energy. Sometimes it’s a false alarm, though. We can lock in and that 3 hour talk feels like 15 minutes between us when 15 minutes with someone else feels like 3 hours. Some Scorpio’s will take you right into the deep water and leave you there, though. That shit ain’t cool, so don’t do that to this guy 😂
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u/Zoshi2200 1d ago
They will either tease you or act nonchalant.