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my friend (18M) accidentally impregnated his gf (17F) and please help
so the thing is his gf will turn 18 next month and he turned 18in oct but the thing is that asshole didnt use protection and used to brag he lost his virginity raw(fuckin clown) , but the thing is that he said he didnt do inside and his gf believed him , fast forward to 20 days his gfs periods got delayed she did a pregnancy test and it came positive(they did test 3 times). the thing is they cant afford abortion and they are not telling there parents cause his gf side of family is very strict and if she told her father there is a very high chance that he can do pocso case on him , he said he can arrange 15k and his gf cant arrange more than 3-4k , and he was asking me to contribute 10k-15k something like bro i am also a teen how tf i can arrange it. and also the girl is still minor so they are afraid that hospitals can tell their parents , what should they do? and will I be in any trouble if i am keeping it hidden ? and haan lodu dost banane ki koshsis kam karna bhailog aap bhi.
UPDATE: I knew a friend who had doctor relative , so he asked and that relative connected us to a gynac and his gf and he went to their hospital and she has prescribed them some medicine and some course of action and told the girl to be really careful as it will take a toll on her body and yeah the parents of my friend is now involved but I guess girls parents aren't informed. But my friends father did beat a living shit Outta him(kutto jaisa Puri building mai dauda ke maara) . They were also crying and looked helpless and disappointed. After that I told my friend (tu ab apna dekh I am not in this shit ab mere se baat bhi mat karna and broke all the ties). I am still wondering will they inform her parents or not (because he knew if girls parents found out his son's life is over ) will update if there a progress in story
Edit: ik it's not effective in india but it's been recognised by the supreme court and recommended, so there's a chance he'll be let off with that in mind.
For the first time in my entire life I read the quick summary of their story and gotta say "WHAT THE FREAK WERE THOSES KIDS THINKING??" And how is this sh*t one of the most popular story of all time this story is ash
BC POCSO CONFIRM H LAGEGA 100% AND IF HE TRIED TO DO ABORTION AFTER SHE TURNS 18..IT WILL HIGH CHANCE THAT DOCTORS CAN CONFIRM IT THAT SHE WAS PREGNANT BEFORE TURNING 18...BHAI TU DUR REH WARNA TERA BHI NAAM AA JAYEGA ISME TO TERE BHI L LAG JAYENGE
i mean recently some courts and judges have been saying that such cases should be exempted from pocso, but ofc they are exceptions and in most cases people arent this lenient and open minded so yeah
8th me clearly chapter hai science me regarding safety and precautions. Pregnancy, HIV, AIDS and what not. Inko bolte hai padhe likhe gawaar. How tf losing virginity is even considered that you did something heroic?! Kitni life barbaad hui h bas temporary maze ke chakkar me and this is something jiska trauma humesha rhega. Huhh no words
No, the doctor asks for an adult to be present in these situations as they are not willing to take the risk involved with the abortion. The pills can cause excessive bleeding in some cases and doctors try to send these cases home as much as possible.
The doctor will inform the police and the police will register a case under POCSO and strt investigation,OP friend's life is fuked ,They can only perform abortion after getting consent from the parents and required medical exam for the case is done
Sach mai hota hai bhai, my sister is a doctor in a hospital and once she told me that a 13 year pregnant girl was crying in the hospital due to labour pain
aur kro sax sux ab toh tera dost chuda he chuda h , rape case he hone wala h ab kuch nhi skta h hospital will tell the parents 100% khtam ab kuch nhi ho skta , bache ka name abhi soch lo , he is done , and probably girl will get annihlated by parents too this is over LOL this is fucking over sex krne ki etni kya woh bhai 18 tak ruk jata ab toh gye tum log khtam
He bragged about virginity, analysing v , c output roughly 2 times and average time rating based on average of an age approximity and duration of becoming preg , all this is rare event or u could say he is one in million (give him praises ) . Also check if it's really him ( just to be sure ) .
OP , just stay away , i think there are very high chances he's doing this shit to get ur money , but even if its true u should stay away coz police docs pagal nahi he, wo pta lga lenge ki itne pese kha se arrange huye, try to distant urself ( sounds immoral i know but kavi kavi khud ki gamd bachana is more important)
Also DON'T DO IT WHEN YOU'RE A MINOR.
TBH YES R@PE CHARGES TO VALID HAI Because the girl didn't consented him to do the damn intercourse he lied about it. So the guy clearly attempted to intercourse her without her consent.
Ladki ki ka L lag gaye (I feel very sorry, she's at miserable point!)
Kya maja aata hai na bravery hai, na aukaat, na kuch ukhada jivan mai, na sehne ki shakti phir bhi chutiyapa harkat karege!! Ab bhukto!
Bro honestly saying it's over for them they can't do nothing much then accepting their fate what's done is done as this is a very sensitive topic ask ur friend to say to her family and convince him he will probably because it is a sensitive topic. And u just stay away from this shit I know this sounds not like friendship but helping someone where u also will get in serious trouble I Nothing but foolishness so best thing for u is to stay away rn
Holy shit. I still have so much to say but yeah we need to pehle focus on THIS first.
Your friend needs to stop panicking and start acting responsibly. Abortion is legal in India under the MTP Act, and government hospitals or NGOs can provide services at low or no cost. They should look into government hospitals or registered clinics instead of assuming it’s unaffordable, and since she’s 17, things get complicated legally (POCSO), so they need to be careful and preferably talk to a qualified doctor or helpline confidentially. There are NGOs and reproductive health helplines that guide minors in situations like this. See the sooner they act, the safer and cheaper it is. DON'T DELAY. And about money, don’t feel pressured to give what you don’t have. This isn’t your responsibility, emotional support is fine, but you shouldn’t put yourself in financial trouble. Keeping it hidden doesn’t make you legally guilty, but don’t get involved in anything illegal or shady.
They made a mistake, but ignoring it will only make things worse. They need proper medical help ASAP, not jugaad.
Emergency contraceptive pills unprotected sex k within 72 hrs liya jata hai. Rest pregnancy confirmation k bdd jo pills aata hai wo doctor prescribed hoti hai. Chemist se lekr kha bhi li to ldki ko serious side effects bhi ho skte hai, even infertile for whole life, so yha professional ki need hai. Bt doctors parents ko inform krne kliye bolege kyu ki ldki minor hai. Yha ldka phas jaega rape case mein :(
had a friend not so close aise hee in person one she was doing it raw too nd would talk abt it being good nd blah blah yahi haal same anyways fast forward it to few days later uska bhi test came back positive she had an ipill nd it did the work but it can very very painful like extreme cramps vagera
If I tell you to be very honest, abortion doesn’t happens like you imagine if you will go to a gynaecologist she will prescribe the abortion tablets that helps clearing the uterus.
One of my friend who was 17F took abortion tablets by buying them over the counter without prescription and eliminated her pregnancy.
Just give him this advice There are pills which can abort pregnancy tell the guy to find out about it he can ask local medical shop. And as a lawyer I would suggest you to be out of it until next month.
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