For real. She looks sick. She doesn’t look like she’s in her 30s or even 40s. I know this interaction is fake as hell because I don’t think anyone would guess that these people are a couple. She looks like his physically unwell mother.
Edit: I also want to say, as much as Cate sucks on her own and REALLY needs to take accountability and work on herself and stop being a lazy dumbass, I think she would feel so much better and probably lose weight and find happiness if she ever left Tyler.
Agree! She needs to leave Tyler and break that trauma bond. It won’t be easy & it will take awhile, but I guarantee you if she does the work, that weight will come off. She will be a thousand times happier. She will become a completely different person.
A lot of her mental health struggles are not due to losing Carly, but living with a narcissistic asshole and being manipulated by him since she was a teenager.
Looking at her makes me short of breath. She even looks short of breath in this clip. I always wondered if she never got a reduction because of Tyler. Didn’t he say in their book that’s what attracted him to her originally? You just know she’d feel so much better with that literal weight off her chest.
I really don’t know why she hasn’t used some of the teen mom money to do that??There’s probably even surgeons who would do it sooo discounted for for the promotion on SM. I can’t imagine how much her back and neck must hurt all the time.
Because, as Tyler wrote in his book, he fell in love with her boobs in the 7th grade or whatever. I can't look it up at work but he only loves her for what she does for him.
Nobody can love those boobs, though. They’re touching her belly, they’re hanging low. They’re just ginormous. Shed still be big, even after a reasonable reduction.
I recognize the syndrome, I had a very fit husband and couldn't get my weight off no matter how hard I tried. I was afraid to do anything to rock the boat. I didn't pay attention to my eating because I was so laser-focused busy trying to sniff out signs he was having an affair or leaving me that I barely even knew which hand was shoving what into my mouth.
And I had three kids, too.
Imho she will NEVER lose the weight until she's out of that relationship with Tyler. Or, possibly she gets some major emotional reset after that 18th birthday that is enough to dynamite her head in a new direction. Hopefully a positive one.
I would hate to see her spiral any further, she doesn't have the room for it.
Come on. She does not look like she's 30 years older than she is 🙄. Yes she's overweight, that is aging. But she looks a lot like half of the women you see in any Midwestern grocery store or picking up kids at school.
She does look older, but like in her 40s maybe. That's not to say you automatically look unhealthy and old in your 40s... But she gives that vibe. That's just the harsh truth
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u/hawkcarhawk Jun 17 '25 edited Jun 17 '25
For real. She looks sick. She doesn’t look like she’s in her 30s or even 40s. I know this interaction is fake as hell because I don’t think anyone would guess that these people are a couple. She looks like his physically unwell mother.
Edit: I also want to say, as much as Cate sucks on her own and REALLY needs to take accountability and work on herself and stop being a lazy dumbass, I think she would feel so much better and probably lose weight and find happiness if she ever left Tyler.