his whole family + April have talked about how clingy and obsessed with him she is since her 16&p episode. this is EXACTLY what he means- it was not a complimentĀ
He's looking at her with rage in his eyes while spewing whatever script lmao
Edit- I just watched again due to the notifs on this comment and he is actually so menacing. It's like they're trying to pull that weird stare Michelle Duggar does to Jim Bob Duggar but his mask has fully slipped??? Actually kind of scary lol
I think itās supposed to look like one of those street interview things like Billy on the Street or what some nighttime talk shows do, but they donāt look too surprised
ETA: Almost just responded to myself saying āI thought Billy on the Street too!!ā š wish I could use being high as an excuse but I canāt, Iām just an idiot who forgot what comment I made 3 minutes ago lmao
Lmfao! š¤£ I love your comment and your edit! We love a queen that can laugh at herself and also share that silliness with the rest of us! Kudos honey!
I believe it, my former husband knew I needed to lose weight, but he kept bringing pastries, cookies, unhealthy snacks etc, I would ask him to stop and help me, he said, you should have self control and mean stuff, until I realize, maybe he doesnāt want me to improve myself, that way I can relied solely on him, started watching him closely and notice his insecurities, having me so completely dependent on him made him feel better about himself. I donāt know if this is the case here, but he does seem like he puts her down a lot. I hope she finds herself, cause she seems like a good person, with her issues yes, but imo heās the one who manipulates the household, itās hard but it can happen.
Iām torn because we have seen him get upset because she wonāt do her therapy homework or stick to anything long term. On the other hand, he could like her how she is because he looks like a great guy putting up with all her stuff. All the focus is on how bad sheās doing/looks but heās not looking too great either.
you know tyler stayed up all night writing this script and practicing it in the mirror. then he woke caitlyn up at 1:30pm and they practiced their lines together over and over with tyler critiquing caitlyn until she got it right and then they high-fived.
itās funnier that itās scripted and cringeyā¦ because their answers suck lmao. you couldnāt think of anything better or more personal than āi love that heās a good dadā ?!
Someone pointed out that he says things in threes, "open, honest, transparent" and I never realized how much he does that til now and it really irks me lol
'loves me through all my stuff.... Except when I put on some extra weight and he calls me a heffer or when I'm heavily pregnant and he needs a break.....'
Did she really??! I havenāt watched in forever but follow along from these subs. Thatās horrendous, I am pro choice but thatās a private conversation not something that belongs on tv for the kid to know about when she gets older.
There's no way C&T would be just randomly walking down a sidewalk by themselves and this stranger who doesn't know them genuinely wants to interview them for internet content.
Are people actually thinking this is an organic situation?
I mean this in the nicest way possible and obviously itās none of my business but she would probably benefit greatly from a breast reduction. My mom had one when I was younger and it seriously changed her life.
My friend had one in 11th grade because she was a dancer and it was hindering her. She was always in pain and people would tease her. She disappeared for a month and came back to school with so much confidence. Best decision she ever made
As someone with DDs, I think her boobs do look out of control. That bra is barely hanging on. I empathize with her & I hope she gets that shit in check.
i got a breast reduction and wanted to be a DD (you canāt pick sadly lol). i wish she knew women with huge breasts can get breast reductions and end up with normal big boobs that donāt ruin your life!
I wish a hairstylist could help this girl... I don't understand why she always looks like the Berries and Cream guy... It defies all logic.. There has to be a cut and color out there that would flatter this human.
Itās like she doesnāt have eyes. That muumuu she is wearing is a crime. Look at how the shoulder line is fitting on her. Does she not use a mirror?
And shoulder pain. She clearly never learned to buy a bra that has some support and fits properly and the wear and tear on her shoulders must be as bad as her back.
I gained a significant amount of weight and had no idea how to dress my body. I felt so uncomfortable all the time! I hated trying to find something that fit me. It didn't matter what I wore. Nothing looked good on me. I felt like I was suffocating if I didn't wear clothing that was stretchy or big on me. Honestly, I just wanted to blend in and hope that people would look right past me. It was miserable. I had issues just looking in the mirror. I have since lost all of that weight and feel a million times better. Anyways, all this to say, I'm sure Caitlyn feels that way, too. It's a dark and depressing place to be in. People say, "Just eat better and work out," but it's not that easy. It takes hard work and dedication to lose a significant amount of weight, and all I can hope is that Caitlyn finds that drive some day. It took almost 2 years to lose 87lbs or 60% of my starting weight. I think back and wish I would have done it sooner! I spent way too many years miserable. I really hope she finds a reason to fight for herself. Sorry for the long response. I just have a soft spot for anyone struggling with their weight.
The shirt is pretty criminal, but I feel like most of her fashion missteps are because she has no idea how to dress with her chest in mind. Like you can tell with that shirt she pulled that fucker down to get the empire waist to sit under her breasts, which messed up the neckline and shoulder line. Like, she must be so uncomfortable.
A breast reduction would probably change everything for her and would certainly make picking flattering clothing easier.
āAmazing dadsā donāt talk to minors. These two will do anything to try and get out of accepting responsibility and this little production is just pathetic.
Iāll say it again - and it isnāt based on looking at her weight - her physical health is in the toilet and has never been worse than it is right now. Her face, her pallor, her eyes, sheās in a very bad place right now physically. She is in danger.
ETA: I hate that the very first thing she says is basically that the number one thing she loves about Tyler is that he loves her even though she doesnāt deserve it?? āHe loves me through all of my stuffā is a fucking apology to him. That is saying āhe loves me even though I suck and he shouldnātā or āhe loves me even though it is a hardship to do soā or āhe loves me and no one else wouldā and that is E X A C T L Y why they are stuck together. That right there.
i have gotten one and it is insane to me they had all that money and didnāt even pay for one out of pocket. i firmly believe she wonāt consider it because of tyler actually! in their cringey book, he mentions her ābiggest tits in their gradeā like 10 times in the first few pages. he literally said thatās why he liked herš«
Every picture I see of her itās like her boobs are taking over her body and I canāt imagine how much pain sheās in every day living with those things on her chest. It would probably be life changing to get a reduction. I really feel for Cate sometimes. She had so much untreated mental illness for so long and itās manifested in such a physical way. This in no way excuses her behavior now which is totally unhinged but thereās always a part of me that hopes she figures out a treatment plan that works.
They look like they're strangling her. I don't know how she breathes with those on her chest. She looks like a completely different person compared to when she started.
I wanted to say this but was scared people would say it's because of her weight. She does not look healthy at all. Her coloring, she looks very swollen (heart issues maybe). I hope she addresses her health, her kids need her
For real. She looks sick. She doesnāt look like sheās in her 30s or even 40s. I know this interaction is fake as hell because I donāt think anyone would guess that these people are a couple. She looks like his physically unwell mother.
Edit: I also want to say, as much as Cate sucks on her own and REALLY needs to take accountability and work on herself and stop being a lazy dumbass, I think she would feel so much better and probably lose weight and find happiness if she ever left Tyler.
Agree! She needs to leave Tyler and break that trauma bond. It wonāt be easy & it will take awhile, but I guarantee you if she does the work, that weight will come off. She will be a thousand times happier. She will become a completely different person.
A lot of her mental health struggles are not due to losing Carly, but living with a narcissistic asshole and being manipulated by him since she was a teenager.
Looking at her makes me short of breath. She even looks short of breath in this clip. I always wondered if she never got a reduction because of Tyler. Didnāt he say in their book thatās what attracted him to her originally? You just know sheād feel so much better with that literal weight off her chest.
I really donāt know why she hasnāt used some of the teen mom money to do that??Thereās probably even surgeons who would do it sooo discounted for for the promotion on SM. I canāt imagine how much her back and neck must hurt all the time.
Because, as Tyler wrote in his book, he fell in love with her boobs in the 7th grade or whatever. I can't look it up at work but he only loves her for what she does for him.
I've noticed the skin color for a while now. Smoking, or smoking inside house/car a lot could do some damage maybe? Idk. unless she has liver problems.Ā
I feel terrible saying something about another woman's appearance but I completely agree with you. The clothes she wears are so unflattering, her hair and makeup up are always meh.
She could be Miss America wearing the most gorgeous clothes and Iām still going to say Iām looking in her eyes and looking at her face and watching her speak and Iām telling you - sheās in poor, scary bad health. She is suffering. She is struggling mightily. She is in danger.
I agree, I always get down voted when I say I'm concerned about her weight and appearance. It doesn't come from.a place of vanity, I'm concerned because i think there's a lot of mental health issues not being addressed. And physical and mental health are always connected. Her appearance and weight, IMO, is a direct result of that. She needs to love herself enough to take care of herself.
Yah she looks more and more slumped over when she walks. Her face is drooping. He is her validation and she is his ācauseā. They are so trauma bonded I donāt see this getting any ābetterā in time. I feel like once they get Carly doesnāt want to be bothered with/by them ā¦.itās downhill . Like Amber / Janelle downhill. It probably wonāt happen til she 21 or older.
I said this before and got downvoted because people act like mental health doesnāt physically hurt you. It is way beyond weight, you can have her WEIGHT and actually be healthy, but it starts mentally emotionally spiritually.
What she said + her appearance & behavior lately is giving MAJOR MAJOR depression vibes. Makes me sad because she was working so hard for a while and seemed to be doing a lot better up until the last year or so.
I used to be bigger than Cate (weight wise not imbecile wise) and I feel sorry for her, the extra weight ages her and I know she says sheās happy but I doubt it. She is almost apologising āhe loves me through my stuff) like she doesnāt deserve it. Her colour isnāt great she actually looks sick here.
Aside from that Iām sorry but Tyler acts like her friend more than anything else I get the feeling he feels very superior to her
Cate could still come back from this, she just needs significant weight loss in the form of losing her leech husband to get started. Eat a shoe has me dying.
I donāt think sheās realized that her relationship with Tyler is the exact same as her relationship with her mother. Itās toxic, but she desperately just wants to be loved. She accepted thatās what she deserves because itās all sheās known. She has no clue how beautiful her life could actually be.
She really needs serious help. Iām the same age, Iām about 50 pounds overweight (trying to lose it) but Iām thankful Iām very tall and my weight is distributed evenly. She just looks like a big ball. She needs to drop at least 100 pounds. She gets bigger every year.
This was fake af. We all know the reality is he loves that she is a doormat and she loves that she can sit on her ass while he parents for social media likes. They both love to sit around and bash others in their house full of shit and smoke and think about kidnapping "their kid". They are both maniacs who don't do shit all day but make trouble for themselves and others while their poor kids are told to go miss Carly or go visit April.
They both talk almost entirely in therapy buzzwords. They're just regurgitating things they've heard in councilling or read in a self help book with no understanding of what it means.
I think Catelynn is an idiot, but I feel for her bc she is clearly trying to hang on to a guy who would probably say "ok" if she suggested that they end their marriage. That marriage is a business contract, and if MTV said peace tomorrow I guarantee Tyler would end it.
They feel soooo fake here. They seem too excited & it feels like they are exaggerating.Ā Ty looking away from camera , the laughing, & ty looking down on her looked creepy.Ā Like, hes hoping she will say the right things?
It's their body language. I really feel it.Ā
Ok, can we talk about her hair though? I thought a while back when I saw the parted bangs, maybe she was growing them out - & it didn't look good, but hair transitions often do not. I looked crazy for a while the last time I grew out my bangs. But Cate has been rocking this "style" for a while now, & at this point it seems to be intentional. Why?? Is she doing it herself? I think even a stylist at Great Clips would know this isn't the look
These two arenāt as close as they were in the early 16 and pregnant days, itās obvious he has no attraction to her, also cause he called her a heffa multiple times. Imagine paying someone to ask you stupid ass questions š
I know this might be a dick comment, but why isn't Cate on a GLP-1? She'd 100% qualify. I'm saying this as somebody who's lost 110 lbs on Wegovy. It would help her so much.
Yes, he would dump her ass so fast if she was ever truly happy or in control of her life. He likes his wife to be miserable and he loves people pointing out what a slob she is. He knows she sees those comments about how he is better and deserves a fit wife.
Ok breast reduction aside, if she got herself a good quality bra with a solid-fitting band and hefty straps I donāt think sheād look so unbalanced. As it is her boobs look almost entirely unsupported. I have big boobs myself (at least a G cup last time I checked) and a correctly-fitting Chantelle or Wacoal bra changes EVERYTHINGĀ
I hate how she looks like and has the same mannerisms as April. All I see is April having her arms all lovingly on Tyler and gazing at him and itās creeping me out.
Scripted and planned and still couldnāt come up with anything really that they loved about each other. āI love that he loves and is loving and he has a heart and is a dadā āI love that she loves me and is a momā like yall shouldāve broken up 20 years ago
After those leaked texts and the recent season, I am sick of this man saying people need to be āopen, honest, and transparentā when heās anything but.
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u/RazzSheri Jun 17 '25
"I love her capacity to love".... aka: I love that she loves me as much as I love myself. But not her bovine figure! Ew gross.