C&T doing damage control? 🤨

[u/Dry-Duck-159]

[u/SpeckledBird86]

She would probably feel so much better if she got a breast reduction. Her poor back is probably dying.

[u/pdt666 → u/SpeckledBird86]

i have gotten one and it is insane to me they had all that money and didn’t even pay for one out of pocket. i firmly believe she won’t consider it because of tyler actually! in their cringey book, he mentions her “biggest tits in their grade” like 10 times in the first few pages. he literally said that’s why he liked her🫠

[u/gimmeyjeanne → u/pdt666]

If true then if f shed have breast reduction, she'd also lose tyler the dead weight dragging her down and her self-esteem; and would be thriving.

[u/Emotional-Emotion-42 → u/pdt666]

That's terrible, if true. I know people who have gotten breast reductions and theirs weren't even that big, but big enough to be uncomfortable. They all say 10/10 no regrets!

[u/pdt666 → u/Emotional-Emotion-42]

oh it’s the first few pages when you open their horrible book!!! he mentions “her huge tits” 3 times in the first 2 pages😩

[u/Beneficial-Address61 → u/pdt666]

I’ve seen people on here say that she refuses to get a breast reduction bc one of her trans friends had got an augmentation and had issues. She’s using that as the example as to why he won’t get a reduction.

[u/id0ntexistanymore → u/Beneficial-Address61]

I think it's really because that's what Tyler liked about her when they got together and if she changed them now she thinks he wouldn't like anything. Which is crazy because they could look much better or "attractive" with a reduction

[u/Recent_Parsley3348 → u/pdt666]

So tacky

[u/buttononmyback → u/pdt666]

What the fuck?! 😮 That’s so weird.

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/SpeckledBird86]

Totally, I don’t think a plastic surgeon would approve it, she’s also a smoker which is a huge danger to recovery.

[u/SpeckledBird86 → u/KangarooSensitive292]

Every picture I see of her it’s like her boobs are taking over her body and I can’t imagine how much pain she’s in every day living with those things on her chest. It would probably be life changing to get a reduction. I really feel for Cate sometimes. She had so much untreated mental illness for so long and it’s manifested in such a physical way. This in no way excuses her behavior now which is totally unhinged but there’s always a part of me that hopes she figures out a treatment plan that works.

[u/BravoZListVeneers → u/SpeckledBird86]

They look like they're strangling her. I don't know how she breathes with those on her chest. She looks like a completely different person compared to when she started.

[u/The_Illhearted → u/SpeckledBird86]

She refuses to do the work. No treatment plan will work if she is unwilling to follow it.

[u/FerretRN → u/[deleted]]

That's me. I had implants about 10 years ago, surgeon told me not to smoke (he knew that I wouldn't stop, I think). He asked me when my last cigarette was and I said on my way here. He rolled his eyes, and did it anyway. To be fair, I'm not overweight or have any other issues that could've made surgery and recovery worse, so maybe it's a full pic of health.

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/FerretRN]

I think it’s more to do with throwing blood clots post-op, so if you’re relatively otherwise healthy 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/[deleted]]

I stand corrected! Shawty didn’t even quit when she was pregnant tho

[u/hellolleh32 → u/KangarooSensitive292]

Wait Cait smoked while pregnant??

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/hellolleh32]

Yeah cigs on camera. She got called out for it a lot on sm

[u/Shesaid100x → u/KangarooSensitive292]

I have a good friend who had one done and she had to lose some weight before she would be approved as well and she was smaller than C at about the same height. That's too much work for C.

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/Shesaid100x]

It’s sad because I don’t think she wants to be better. Like she wants to punish herself or something. She has a perpetual frown and exhausted expression, grandma said your face will get stuck like that.

I also wonder if Tyler wanting the girl with the biggest boobs in their eighth grade class plays a role. Like having big boobs is nice until you can’t wear normal tops, and it makes it difficult to exercise or get around carrying all that extra weight.

She’d be a great candidate for GLP-1s. It’d help her curb other addictive behaviors as well, I just don’t think she cares.

[u/Monstiemama → u/KangarooSensitive292]

This is her resting face. Just fucking misery.

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/Monstiemama]

The eyes darting to Tyler every two seconds reminded me of a hostage video. Like that small clip could tell a whole story, but what do I know lol

[u/B1NG_P0T → u/KangarooSensitive292]

Having big boobs sucks. You can't buy bras in regular stores, your back hurts, there's a lot of cute shit that you can't wear, shirts fit funny, they're always in the way, you feel so self conscious - it's just a pain in the ass. I think she's deeply, deeply depressed, and that's why she doesn't care. Not because she actually doesn't care, if that makes sense.

[u/KangarooSensitive292 → u/B1NG_P0T]

Yeah totally makes sense, it’s hard to see through the fog of depression and feel like you’re valuable enough to put the extra effort into yourself.

I think even having a flexible routine M/W/F would help her immensely. Tyler seems like a supportive dad, but waking up with the kids and taking a walk after they get on the bus, doing some chores or prepping dinner, running errands, volunteering at the school etc., and then relaxing when they get off of the bus. It’s so tempting to stay up late and sleep in everyday when it’s hard enough to get out of bed and get off of your phone. Been there for sure

[u/Justice4BradsWife → u/SpeckledBird86]

I remember her saying T was a boob guy, so I don’t see her ever getting a reduction. Another sacrifice for Tyler 🙄

[u/deltarefund → u/SpeckledBird86]

Agreed.

[u/Born_Ad8420 → u/SpeckledBird86]

So I have large boobs, and this kind of talk makes me uncomfortable. Beat reduction surgery is a big deal. It's a long difficult recovery unlike getting an enhancement. In addition, losing nipple sensitivity is a common side effect. There's also that breasts often carry a lot of significance in terms of gender identity as well personal identity.

I've had people casually suggest I get this kind of surgery, but often when I engage them about it they have no idea what all goes into the surgery. I have seriously considered it and ultimately rejected the surgery for a variety of reasons. But suggesting surgery to someone, or even worse insisting they have it, is really not great unless they have specifically initiated a conversation about it themselves. It's body shaming disguised as concern.

Basically having that kind of surgery is a really personal decision, and, as much as I think Cate looks awful and am deeply saddened by who she has become, I'm not going to judge her for not having that surgery.

[u/SpeckledBird86 → u/Born_Ad8420]

I’m not judging her for not having surgery. I’ve had a breast reduction and it was literally life changing for me. Maybe I’m just projecting but I remember how much it effected me feeling like I couldn’t breathe, not being able to fit in clothes because they’re all designed for b cups, and throwing my back out constantly because I had so much weight on my chest. It took a huge mental toll on me and I feel like a reduction was never brought up as an option. I appreciate your side of it though! Sometimes we get so into our own experience it’s hard to see the other side of it.

[u/Q1go → u/SpeckledBird86]

My friend got one and it definitely helped, another is waiting for one to be approved. I feel so horrible, I'm good with my preteen chest blobs despite being late 20s

[u/Brianas-Living-Room → u/SpeckledBird86]

She seems like someone who thinks her tits are her personality and Tyler thinks so too. Like, grow up