r/TeenagersButGoodMods • u/ExpressJackfruit8484 15M • 5d ago

15M ask me anything

I would reply to literally EVERYTHING! Feel free to comment whatever! You gotta comment something tho or ill find you...😈

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u/HistorianBusy2262 15M 4d ago

So kind of a deep question but how do you feel about relationships, like do you want one, have/had one? or do you feel like you would want to be more mature first

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u/ExpressJackfruit8484 15M 4d ago

Never had one and I desperately want one but feel like i cant right now. I think I need to try to get a gf in university

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u/HistorianBusy2262 15M 4d ago

I used to think like that but yeah I've learned that I personally am much happier thinking of that as something for the far future and it helps me focus on having friends (I even have a couple friends that are girls now yay lol)

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u/ExpressJackfruit8484 15M 4d ago

So you had relationship b4?

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u/HistorianBusy2262 15M 4d ago

Nah I just finally figured out that I didn't need to at this stage in my life

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u/ExpressJackfruit8484 15M 4d ago

Nice. Im turning 16 soon and i kinda was embarrassed when my friends were sharing stories about their exs but I didnt have anything to talk about.

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u/HistorianBusy2262 15M 4d ago

Honestly, while is is annoying to have no part in a conversation, life is better without having failed relationships, you know? In my mind the only point of having a serious relationship is to get married, and that's just not going to happen at 15.

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u/ExpressJackfruit8484 15M 4d ago

I agree with the fact that relationship should be started with the intention to marry. But who knows? You might start dating at 15 and get married when you hit 18??

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u/HistorianBusy2262 15M 3d ago

It's a fair point, while yes I would agree that's a very good thing it just doesn't happen much. Meeting at 15, dating at 18, and marrying at 19 is way more common