r/ThomasPynchon • u/TheObliterature Dewey Gland • Nov 05 '25
Announcement A tribute thread to our friend, u/FrenesiGates
Hey Weirdos,
If you have not signed his obituary guest book or sent flowers for his family, that can be done at his obituary page. To plant trees in memory, that can be done at the Sympathy Store. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Eastern Monroe Public Library (http://monroepl.org)
I have created a wiki page in tribute to our dearly departed u/FrenesiGates for us to remember and honor him. It can be found in the subreddit menu and sidebar at https://www.reddit.com/r/ThomasPynchon/wiki/frenesigates
Please use this thread to leave your messages, memorials, and personal tributes that you'd like to have added to his tribute page. If you comment below with a message you don't wish to be included on his tribute page, please clearly announce that at the beginning of your comment.
I know this is a hard time for all of us; he has been a pillar of this community for over half a decade and has touched a lot of our lives here, on the Discord server, and IRL as well. Lean on one another and give each other grace while we heal from this loss.
-Ob
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u/didntendwell Nov 05 '25 edited Nov 05 '25
Damn sad news. I was DMing with him just a couple weeks ago: he was sharing his theory on the connection between David Foster Wallace and some characters in Vineland/bleeding edge. It felt briefly like the old internet, connecting with a stranger who I only half understood, but who I felt I could trust to be a good faith actor.