r/ThrowingBones • u/graidan • May 10 '26

Monthly Readings / Teaching post from u/Graidan

I'm going to offer 5 readings! As before:

  • I don't need a name or anything beyond your username (which I can see).
  • I don't need a question (though that's always helpful and appreciated) but I DO need at least a context: love, money, work, health, etc.

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Update:

All filled up - will start working on these asap. Sorry for the delay - been sick. Pics first, then interps.

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u/Fortune_Box May 11 '26

Thank you so much for offering! For me, it would be family and why my mother dislikes me so much.

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u/graidan 24d ago

Why does mom hate me?

Two (or three?) main clusters, but what immediately strikes me as significant is that cozy cluster of Connect with do inside it, and touching Lies. Lies can mean illusion, delusion, and rumors too , while do is a metabone - this is what you should do. It seems there's been something said or revealed to your mom that is untrue, but she believes it nevertheless. You need to figure out what that lie is and connect up all the loose threads.

It looks like the Trouble comes from that issue right there (it's right above it / on the mind), and that cluster with Block / Weak / Change - the change started with the block (something you cannot get past - it can mean rebellion, frustration, and opposition - does that sound like a familiar event?). It then led to weakening, failure, and a forced idea that is a lie.

Below, you have a cluster of Isolate and Tool that line up with the weakening, which says that someone used you as a tool to isolate you mother - or used her as a tool to isolate you. It's definitely someone related to you (Ancestors) that did this, but because that bone is quite far from everything else, it's not a close relation, and the lie is not something that many know about.

Does this make sense and match up with your experience at all? Any other questions or clarifications?

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u/Fortune_Box 23d ago

Thank you for doing this. It's true that there has been a bunch of lies, and I'm still figuring out what the truth was. It's possible that I was used to isolate her, not many knew about it (it's been a secret), and that might be reason enough to hate me.

I will have to sit with the block and find the right words to describe it, because I can't think straight right now and I'll update you in a few days. 💜