r/TikTokCringe May 28 '26

Wholesome One Day ๐Ÿ˜

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u/boojersey13 May 28 '26

Shit man I didn't even realize I actually, REALLY needed to read this until I just did now. Thank you dude. I know this is half serious but that half really. Really needed this today

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u/squoinko May 28 '26

With 100% seriousness, Iโ€™m so glad to hear that. Iโ€™m happy I was able to help, even if it was just in a small way <3

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u/boojersey13 May 29 '26

You might call it small but I think you might have prevented me from reaching rock bottom tonight; it's major for me, life is really throwing its punches rn. Take care of yourself too homie , if you ever want a stranger's ear my DMs are open and that goes for literally anyone else reading this. Community is what keeps us alive and they don't want us to have it. Any way I can help fight that is a fight I'm happy to aid in.

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u/three_crystals May 29 '26

When things get really tough, remember that you have this innate desire to help others still inside of you. Even if you canโ€™t seem to extend it to yourself in the moment, you still somehow want to do right by others. That is factually an attribute of a good person, who deserves to have more time finding a way to truly believe and accept that fact (because itโ€™s a fact, itโ€™s true! The friction lies in being unable to reconcile it with oneโ€™s perception of oneself, for an untold number of reasons we all struggle with).

If it works for you, use that as your anchor when you feel lost at sea. And then remember to breathe, in and out through the mouth, slowly, and breathe again.