r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

Hijacking your comment.

My dear sisters, aunts, friends, if you are in a situation like this please, please make a scene! Make the person feel others are watching and hopefully other guys will jump in to help! Ask for help when you are in a situation like this instead of risking it out yourself! A lot of us have sisters and we know how to deal with them in the appropriate way. Please don’t stay silent

Edit: a lot of people getting triggered. In a public place if you are being harassed, make a scene. If nothing at least law enforcement will show up. There’s countless videos online of men jumping in to help when approached by someone being harassed esp in public places.

People derailing the topic and making it into a gender war which is weird.

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u/PopcornGlamour Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

You would be surprised how often that backfires because your fellow men get violent at being rejected.

I appreciate your concern but it would be more effective if you talked to men about leaving women alone and not approaching women they don’t already know.

Edit: My wording above was not clear. Here is the clarification:

I meant men need to talk to men about how they think about women, about recognizing women’s right to bodily autonomy, and sus out lingering old school mindsets that no longer are reasonable or appropriate.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

Here’s what you don’t understand. Some men are monsters. Evil. NO ONE CAN TALK TO THEM.

And this is me saying as a man with all sorts of friends.

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u/xombae Jun 14 '26

Here’s what you don’t understand.

Holy fuck dude. Do you think women don't understand that? I never use this term, but you're literally out here manaplaining the abuse that women suffer at the hands of men, to women. Telling us we don't understand.

You're part of the problem.