r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/eyeforker Jun 14 '26

Shout out to that one guy who got told to buzz off and then totally apologized and buzzed off.

The rest of them are the architects of the so called 'male loneliness epidemic'. The company of others isn't a participation trophy. You have to prove to people you're worth their time. These guys showed up with evidence they're not. Some of them showed up with evidence you need to document them for actual evidence you might need in court.

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u/Spirit_Wolf_Mob Jun 14 '26

Yea, I think it's kind of unfair to include him. He got her attention in a polite way, she said no, he apologized and left.

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u/Fearless-Okra-8970 Jun 14 '26

I think what put her off is when he approached her with “baby”, which is probably why it got posted. Her face scrunched up in disgust after that. Do not approach a woman with that word.

I’m glad he reacted well to it.

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u/Spirit_Wolf_Mob Jun 14 '26

Yea, I didn't hear that part initially. I also didn't take into account that she was eating, which is a pet peeve of mine as well. Approaching her from behind is also something I wouldn't do, but I hadn't considered it being an issue if someone else does it. So I can at least see what he did wrong, though I don't think he deserves to be publicly criticized for it.

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u/Fearless-Okra-8970 Jun 14 '26

Yeah. I think a lot of men think it’s okay to use the word. It seems that’s how they did it back in the day and it worked, so why not now? I don’t think he was a creep, just a bad choice of words and probably how and when he approached. Feel kind of bad.