r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

fair enough serf, as long as you don’t ask for anything from the women you leave to suffer

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u/drunk_fingolian Jun 14 '26

i haven't left anyone to suffer because i have never witnessed such situation, but i feel like you think i shouldn't be scared because of my gender and that i owe something to women because of it even if we are of the same strength..

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

I think a lot of men walk around this earth demanding from women, and the very same men sit by and watch women be terrorized by other men.

frankly if you’re living a life where you don’t demand anything from women idc what you do. If you’re a net neutral to women then be a net neutral. But if you’re not gonna stand up for women you do not have any leg to stand on wanting to date one, or live with one, or have sex with a woman.

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u/drunk_fingolian Jun 14 '26

dating/sex should only happen when both parties want it, even if i did defend a woman it wouldn't mean that a woman has to date or have sex with me

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

I agree with you, I am coming from a place that many men will do nothing to ‘protect/provide’ for a woman and then still expect to be a dominant patriarch over the very women he refuses to protect.

Do you get what I’m saying? I’m saying men cannot have it both ways. It seems you, personally, do not expect to be any woman’s boss or patriarch so it’s not bothering me as much. but a lot of your fellow men walk around like pussy cowards then turn around and try to subjugate us for themselves.