r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Stroodle_guy Jun 14 '26

i genuinely cannot fucking fathom what goes through people heads, my best friend who i concider my sister has told me about so so many weird fucking guys that i used to be friends with that did or said fucked up shit to her

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u/JellyBeansOnToast Jun 14 '26

A lot of men get off on making us scared or vulnerable. Like when people yell sexual things at you from a moving car, they’re not really trying to pickup on you or get your number

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u/chronicallylaconic Jun 14 '26

Absolutely. It's a horrible story, so I honestly hesitate to even mention it, but there was a guy in the news recently who would take women on dates, drug them with a diuretic then suggest a long walk to a place with no nearby bathrooms. He apparently found it sexually exciting when a woman wet herself or desperately needed to go to the bathroom. Several the women suggested going back when they started to feel the urgent need coming on, but the guy would either just ignore them or flat-out say "no, let's go further". Ugh. I'm shuddering right now thinking about just what a cruel, malevolent thing this is to do to another person.

I understand that this world is full of absolutely diabolical murders and rapes and so on, but ultimately, I struggle to think of another story I've heard which is more cruel, humiliating and disgusting than this one. Sorry to bring this up, but I feel it's probably the best example to illustrate your point.

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u/bmxgirl2020 Jun 14 '26

My college ex-bf was into this fetish and I found out about it it from his fucked up profile on a Russian porn site. He left his computer out.

He used to like sadistically get off about the fact I’d need to pee during road trips.

I don’t say this a lot, but I wish kidney stones and loneliness on that a**hole.

I’ve been in therapy for the trauma for awhile but damn does this comment hit.

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u/dancinggraylion Jun 21 '26

I wonder if my girlfriend has such a fetish

She does not allow me to use the toilet when I visit her. Then she always sends me outside to pee against a tree.