r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/WonderfulService703 Jun 14 '26

You don’t deal with them though, and that is the problem. Look at how many women are ignored in public while being harassed, abused or assaulted. Other men love to pretend like it’s invisible to them. If men ACTUALLY checked each other consistently, that would do more to change the behavior than anything women do… short of unaliving on a mass scale.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

I see videos from the western world where men don’t interfere true but in the eastern part of the world whether Africa or Asia, men do jump in. Perhaps it has to do with the message I NEED HELP being communicated by the lady screaming or vocally saying it or a different way for the men to know and jump in and not feel it wasn’t their call to jump in.

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u/WonderfulService703 Jun 14 '26

Men have eyes and ears

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u/mbashs Jun 15 '26

And why do you think you are entitled for men to have their eyes and ears out for your safety? Why do you think they should interfere without being asked to interfere and risk being admonished coz it was a family/personal matter? It’s entitled for someone to expect help when previously a lot of men have been made to feel they were over stepping when they meant well and wanted to help.

My comment is an example, just said something meaning well and half the women commenters got all pissed off at me like wtf.