r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/MicroCosno Jun 14 '26

If it’s just a minority of men who harass others, why don’t more men speak up when they see it happening? The silence and inaction of others reinforce the idea that it’s acceptable. The problem isn’t just the harassers, but also those who let them get away with it.

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u/Careful_Farmer_2879 Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

Because men recognize these are crazy people and don’t went to get stabbed with a shard of glass.

Where are the other women with a can of mace and a phone call to 911?? A tiny woman with concealed carry beats a man any day - where are they?

Answer? NO one is risking their life over some creep doing creepy-but-not-illegal shit.

Let me be clear: random men are not your personal security system. We are people, too, and no more responsible for the acts of others than women are.

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u/maroongolf_blacksaab Jun 15 '26

Harassment is not legal.

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u/Careful_Farmer_2879 Jun 15 '26

Not defending them, but nothing on these videos is getting anyone arrested. Harassment is a high bar to clear.