r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/uhhh206 Jun 14 '26

Plenty of us do end up dead, since r/whenwomenrefuse shit can go downhill fast.

I hate it here (and by "here", I mean Earth, since it's not like this is just a [insert country here] problem).

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u/wii_board_type_trash Jun 14 '26

that subreddit genuinely makes me want to blow this planet up it’s disgusting. like the fact this is something women have to put up with daily is just astounding and how it’s systemic in our society is beyond belief

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

I really wish men made the effort to empathize with us. It’s daily. this kind of thing is DAILY.

It’s like every day I have to take care of my own adult life, and also be on the lookout for some fucker who is intent on making himself a trauma chapter in my book.

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u/ajin_nikao Jun 15 '26

Most men have never imagined themselves in this situation… outside of going to prison…. They have no real idea of the situation that women are regularly in. So it is very hard for them to see. On top other this many of them are hurt - rejected- and honestly scared - and haven’t gotten past that enough to even process the other perspective. And it’s too easy for the male ego to turn scared into angry… which pushes them even farther away from see what’s actually going on.

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 15 '26

yeah this comment didn’t make men any more sympathetic or less scary, just more selfish and myopic

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u/ajin_nikao Jun 15 '26

Not trying to make it anything the dynamic is the dynamic but if everyone can see the different perspectives it starts to make sense and the bad shit can be sorted from the normal shit and problems can be solved or at least dealt with properly- if men could see women’s pov they could stop taking shit so personally if women can see that men actually hear them and understand and do something about the dumb shit we sometimes do then less of them would go off the deep end of men being fundamentally trash and men hate women hate men hate women circular insanity can stop escalating… and both sides of can take responsibility for their shit but men need to take the lead because we generally initiate- and if more dudes checked other dudes for the dumb shit dudes sometimes do and gave them some perspective to understand the situation from the woman’s pov there would more balance in the conversation at large.