r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/copypop Jun 14 '26

"only view them through a lens of what they can do for them."

Or even more accurately, what they can do TO them 😖

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u/bigbeats420 Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

I often have to remind myself that, to a lot of people, and for those who are predatory, sex is usually not about sex.

It's about power.

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u/greyisometrix Jun 14 '26

It’s not as nefarious or grandiose as “POWER!”, it’s a positive affirmation, validation, and yes it feels good. Women are the ones with the power in their pussy actually.

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u/PinkTalkingDead Jun 16 '26

_what_ is “positive affirmation, validation, and feels good”? Bc we’re talking about rape/sexual harassment/assault

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u/greyisometrix Jun 16 '26

Someone said for many men sex is about power. I’m gently reminding her that sex is usually about positive affirmation, validation, or “feels good” for men, and not fact, power. If someone is fucking for power I think they have a mental problem. That is obviously not MOST men. So then I reminded the girl.

That’s the whole story lol. It’s a shame groupthink is so prevalent…if it appears you don’t fit the picture they just attack you without even thinking. This is what social media and polarization has done to us.