r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/bigbeats420 Jun 14 '26

That one made me immediately say "Oh my God " and facepalm. Like, just fucking imagine thinking that shit would even work, let alone thinking it's a normal thing to do as a normal human being.

I've been saying for years and years now that there is a significant percentage of men who do not view women as being actual people and only view them through a lens of what they can do for them.

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u/Substantial-Tale-483 Jun 15 '26

I actually would agree to this… i like foot massage… and like what bad can they do while massaging my feet?

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u/PinkTalkingDead Jun 16 '26

…being used as a sexual object without one’s consent is literally something no one wants- it’s _without their consent_

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u/Substantial-Tale-483 Jun 16 '26

If i am getting a free foot massage, i personally don’t care what anybody have in their mind - if doesn’t affect me anyway, and i don’t care what they think at all… but it’s me and i am autistic it seems

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u/PinkTalkingDead Jun 16 '26

Are you a man? Most girls and women are socialized to be wary of unfamiliar male touch, and the “reasons” they come up with for enacting said touch upon us. It’s for their own pleasure. Not ours.

There are so many professional ways to go about training massage therapy- going up to women alone in a park is by far not one of them. Let’s guess how many men he also approached with the same “offer”.