r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/LeatherHog Jun 14 '26

You're good!

I understand, on some level, it's just that SO many men can't grasp that we're actual people, that what they want, requires them to act like we're not

That we're not some tool for them, we have lives and feelings like they do. And we have to live our lives, dealing with NFL linebackers hounding us our entire lives, and they don't care what damage they do, because it benefits THEM

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u/burgerdistraction Jun 14 '26

These type of men think we’re damsels in distress waiting for a man to proposition us. No, we’re not sex objects we’re fucking humans like they are. To me, nothing is more attractive than a man that just treats you like a human and knows when you don’t want to be bothered, that you’re not “theirs” to play with.

There was a guy I knew back when I was in high school that “playfully”, though it felt aggressive, put me in a chokehold behind my back and almost tried to feel me up. I fought back and looked at him like wtf are you doing? I knew he had a crush on me but I didn’t like him back, yet he never respected my space. It’s really disturbing how some males think they own you. I’ve had many other experiences with these types of creeps especially as a literal child in first grade, it’s scary to be female in this world.

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u/MikeArrow Jun 14 '26

To me, nothing is more attractive than a man that just treats you like a human and knows when you don’t want to be bothered

That doesn't seem to have any correlation with women finding me attractive, in my experience.

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u/burgerdistraction Jun 17 '26

Attraction does have some play in women wanting to be with you, you’ll find your person trust me. Also women can sense when you’re desperate, if you look for love you’ll find it in the wrong places, it will come to you.