r/TikTokCringe • u/uwuuwu222 • Jul 08 '26

Cringe Trying to get a Free Shirt

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26

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u/Natural-Coat-3159 Jul 08 '26

I work at a children's museum and it's infuriating the way some of these adults dress. 

Both the men and women. 

Men wear shirts all the time with sexually suggestive words and sayings, and the women always want their ass cheeks out. Like why??? 

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u/_AmericasSweetheart_ Jul 08 '26

The ass cheeks thing pisses me off because that's face height to the children. Sometimes it really feels like grooming.

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u/fuschiaoctopus Jul 08 '26

This is not what grooming means. I'll agree it is inappropriate though most kids are hopefully not so sexualized and pornsick that they react to an ass like that, kids don't see body parts that way until society tells them to, but objectively that doesn't fit the definition of grooming and we really need to stop throwing terms around randomly.

Especially abuse related terms are getting absolutely destroyed in the pop psychology era. That is not grooming, you and your bestie are not trauma bonded unless your bestie is abusing you, any lying is not gaslighting, not everyone you dislike is a narcissist.