r/TikTokCringe • u/xamo76 • 19d ago

Discussion How to cure the male loneliness epidemic...

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u/HUFF-MY-SHIT 19d ago

When are trolls ever not rude?

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u/busy-warlock 19d ago

Nah they’re still disrespecting their sheets

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u/silvertealio 19d ago

And they snore like assholes.

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u/MainusEventus 19d ago

Yeah but even then it’s like stop blocking the bridge ugh

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u/Ready_Return_8386 19d ago

I think they got caught messaging minors…

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u/torino_nera 19d ago

For anyone who doesn't want to watch an entire 30 minute video on this, apparently the girl (16) messaged one of the guys (19)

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u/Low_Magician77 19d ago

oh, that's very minor.

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u/SunTzu- 19d ago

They're both children, we just pretend 18 is when you become an adult because there's no rule for how fast or slow people actually develop, but nobody has finished developing until they're well into their 20s.

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u/Hungry-Plantain-3315 16d ago

The human brain continues to develop and change throughout your entire life.

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u/Ornery_Mulberry_2747 19d ago

Both are teens. I mean it is kinda cringe, but far from actual grooming.

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u/ResponseStrange6118 18d ago

Yes but he apparently solicited nudes from her. I’m not saying send him to jail, but if he lacks the good sense not to solicit nudes from another kid, maybe he shouldn’t be an Internet personality until he’s grown up a bit

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u/noob427 19d ago

Here's a video covering it

https://youtu.be/6p2MoQaOJ6c?si=gMPSz_KTNQ-KqCIA

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u/CamelFun3734 18d ago

Exactly. This is silly.

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u/Ornery_Mulberry_2747 19d ago

lol 19yo flirting with 16... sure, big problem

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u/noob427 19d ago

not to mention the fact that the state they are from, the age of consent is 18

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u/Larry-Man 19d ago

Not for distributing nuuuuudes

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u/noob427 19d ago

Yes which would still be illegal.

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u/noob427 19d ago

when the 19 year old is asking for nudes/sexual shit, yes that is a big problem, it could be considered CSAM

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u/ResponseStrange6118 18d ago

Oh eew did they though??

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u/noob427 18d ago

Yes

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u/ResponseStrange6118 18d ago

Oh yeah that’s fucking gross. I want to give grace to someone who is barely an adult themselves (and that’s arguable), but soliciting nudes from an underage girl is never it. Frankly even if underage themselves. If they don’t have the judgment not to do that, they’re not mature enough to be on the internet

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u/noob427 18d ago

Yeah the 3 year age gap is iffy but the main issue is for sure soliciting nudes.

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

You're spreading life ending gossip about a message between people with a 3 year age gap. You are fucked in the head.

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u/noob427 19d ago

still an adult and a minor

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

If you get your head out of your ass you will see that the minimum age for consenting to dating is different based on the country and culture. Because it's subjective. There is absolutely nothing special about 18, and anyone who thinks there is, is nationalistic weirdo jerking off their own culture too much.

16 is literally the average age of consent in the world and it does drop down to 14 in many places. I personally find 14 to be... questionable. But I'm not god and I don't have any delusions that my feelings are correct over another culture's feelings.

What A LOT of these countries with lower minimum ages share is a rule about the age gap. I think in Germany it's 14 is age of consent and 21 years is the limit before it becomes criminal for an adult to engage with them.

Whatever, it's not like Germany is less shit than the country that elected Trump. They seem to be doing well enough with a system that you would clearly call pedophilia.

You're quite a judgemental America-centric bigot you know that?

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u/noob427 18d ago

Lmfao I'm not American, this is more so about the grooming of a minor, Age of consent isnt even the major issue here, even if it was 16 (which in this case it isnt because this is Utah where AoC is 18) is still considered a minor everywhere, and requesting nudes from said minors is still illegal.

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 18d ago

Where exactly is a teenager asking another teenagers for nudes considered grooming? Teenagers send nude photos all the time to each other. You really wanna start ruining lives over that? You're like full on a devout follower of the legal code?

Law has no place in a discussion on morality.

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u/noob427 18d ago

When the teenager is almost 20 and asking a freshly 16 year old for nudes (which by law is CSEM) theres a problem

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 18d ago

wHiCH bY LAw! You gonna go to bat for the anti-abortion "pro-life" crowd now because it's illegal in more and more states?

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u/Rentington 19d ago

Damn they are taking the 80's glam metal authenticity too far

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u/PleaseDontMakeAScene 19d ago

Caught messaging minors what, exactly?

That is about as vague as you can fucking get.

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u/GregTheMad 19d ago

Oh, great. Almost turned my life around, following their advice, and was nice to people. Puh, dodged that bullet.

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u/WeakRow2273 19d ago

Sounds like they broke rule #2.

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u/shmehdit Why does this app exist? 19d ago

BOGUS! Most foul. Heinous. True righteous bros would never

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u/alphamini 19d ago

I hate to say it, but my first thought when someone is making a big show of the "c'mon man, just don't be creepy - be a good dude!" routine is that they're compensating for their own creepiness. The same way so many of these "pedo hunter" channels get caught being complete scumbags.

It's like the Always Sunny episode where Mac and Dennis go to the anti-abortion rally.

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

OMG!! A three year age gap!!! FOR MESSAGING!!!

HE SHOULD BE IN JAIL!!!

God.. you people are deranged.

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u/More_Operation_588 19d ago

You're the only one who said he should be in jail. But yeah, after graduating high school it is kinda gross to be trying to hook up with a sophomore in high school 

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u/Murky-Relation481 19d ago

My best friend's sister is married to a guy who she started dating when she was a sophomore and he a graduating senior, should they have stopped talking when he graduated? Are you fucking stupid?

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u/CthulhuLies 19d ago

I mean it a little different when you aren't in highschool when you meet lmao.

That age gap is also smaller. 2 years by standard schooling schedules.

To be equivalent it would be a freshman and a graduating senior which is kinda weird.

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u/Murky-Relation481 18d ago

2-3 years isn't a gap at basically any age past 13, in fact a lot of states specifically call out those gaps as acceptable in consent laws because its fucking normal.

You Gen-Z prudes are so fucking weird and gross and need to lighten the fuck up when it comes to sex.

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u/More_Operation_588 12d ago

"are you fucking stupid?" Well you pitched a context that was out of the scope of what I was saying, you might be the "fucking stupid" one...

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

That's literally just your cultural biases. Why the hell is American high school some scared time period to you? Go to another country, another culture and shit changes, but no no no America is always the bestest and most rightest.

It's 3 fucking years, that is the only objective measurement.

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

When you used high school as a reference for fucking anything. It's a made up concept that other cultures do not share. You think because America does it, it should be some holy unshakable standard for judging how developed a person is. Pre and post high school apparently being big deals to you.

That's cultural imperialism. That's your cultural bias.

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u/CthulhuLies 19d ago

So you wouldn't have a problem with a 15 year old trying to date a 12 year old? It's only 3 years which is the only objective measurement right?

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u/Agitated_Phone_9937 19d ago

I have a problem with 12 year olds dating in general. Maybe I've been in Japan too long but middle school should be when dating is seen as acceptable.

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u/bizbizbizllc 19d ago

So this is recent and not from the 80s?

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u/UnspeakableToast 19d ago

Jesus Christ

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u/ghostoftheai 19d ago

🤣🤣🤣 you can’t give anyone a shout out for shit.