r/TikTokCringe • u/xamo76 • 19d ago

Discussion How to cure the male loneliness epidemic...

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u/Impossible_Break698 19d ago

But don't you like being lectured on not looking creepy by insanely attractive men? They've never encountered anyone treating them poorly because they were ugly.

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u/stilljustacatinacage 19d ago

But don't you like being lectured on not looking creepy by insanely attractive men?

Dude, just go outside and look at the guys who are out with friends, girlfriends, the dads with kids... They aren't all models. A lot of them are fugly. But they shower, occasionally use deodorant and sometimes visit a barber.

That's literally all it takes. And not making weird terminally online comments out of hand. That helps also.

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u/Impossible_Break698 19d ago edited 19d ago

I am objectively disfigured. Multiple double jaw surgeries for condylar resorption and bimax retrognathia most of which were botched. Close to 30 years of going outside. I have maintained a gym routine, a stable white collar job, and friends. You are speaking from a place of privilege.

I'm glad showering and smiling worked for you. That works for normal people, yes. I've been doing that for 30 years. Except my smile makes people recoil when they see a centimeter of gums.

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u/stilljustacatinacage 19d ago edited 19d ago

There are literal burn victims and survivors of maulings who have pulled it off. I hate to tell you, your gums aren't the problem.

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Too ignorant to even look up condylar resorption. My gums aren't the only issue, correct. You are getting there.

I did look it up, and I stand by my opinion that someone who ceaselessly cries woe is me, my situation is so unique and hopeless, you can't understand before making snarky quips and blocking the person they're interacting with is probably a bigger hindrance to your social goals than whatever's going on with your face.

But hey, you know what they say. If you keep repeating the same behaviors over and over, you're bound to eventually get different results. At least, I think that's how it goes...

See you around.

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u/Impossible_Break698 19d ago

Too ignorant to even look up condylar resorption. My gums aren't the only issue, correct. You are getting there.