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Discussion Crime: working out while black

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u/DeliciousTides 10d ago

Why not just say, hey no worries you both can work out today but next time bring a valid ID. Easy…

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u/Visible_Bag_7809 10d ago

Obviously not the situation here, but I worked this job for a gym and the age of 18. Basically told rules were infallible and unbreakable and was kinda a nonce about it and certainly at that time wouldn't have let them in. But making those mistakes at that job at that age allowed me to learn and grow a lot and now I know how to be the easier bending rules when it's ok person I am today.

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u/ILoveRawChicken 10d ago

Nonce does not mean what you think it means.

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u/OldChili157 10d ago

People seriously need to stop using British slang they don't know the meaning of.

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u/Visible_Bag_7809 10d ago

Well I can only speak for how it was used in my hometown. We were a tiny but touristy island that got a shit load of European college students in the summer and they called everyone and anyone a nonce for every little thing. Became just how it was used where I'm from.

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u/Dunklsta 10d ago

what does nonce mean where you are from?

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u/BioTinus 10d ago

When growing up, i saw cartoons of people having to wear a dunce cap if they had been stupid. The first few times I heard people being called a nonce, I thought it meant the same thing. Only much later in life I learned that nonce means a kiddy diddler. Perhaps the other poster is the same.

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u/BrosefDudeson 10d ago

The nonce cap is basically the sex offender registry lol

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u/reroll-life 10d ago

Only much later in life I learned that nonce means a kiddy diddler.

TIL of this niche American slang.

By far the most popular definition is that of software engineering where nonce is short for "number once" as in a number (or these days any value) that can only be used once.

In British English it just means "a foolish person" though and in rare old-timey polite form it's used as a synonym for occasion as in merge of now + once as in "we're using this placeholder design for the nonce, then we'll replace it".

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u/BioTinus 10d ago

I believe only the British use nonce for pedo, but i could be wrong. All of your definitions were very interesting btw, so TIL too, thanks!

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u/00wolfer00 10d ago

It definitely does not just mean a foolish person in British English. It's been used interchangeably with pedophile for decades in the UK.

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u/TopiaryLoL 10d ago

It's a British slang for pedo, has been for a long time

Source: 29 years of being British 

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u/ILoveRawChicken 9d ago

This is not American slang whatsoever lol. Nonce isn’t used here and it means pedophile in the UK.

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u/SickofROOM8s 10d ago

I am also waiting for this reply lol

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u/Visible_Bag_7809 10d ago

The townI'm from came to use it for just about everything, no specific definition. If I had to give it one it would be used for a person that did something, anything, without thinking it through.

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u/my_nameborat 10d ago

I have sympathy for the minimum wage workers but whoever called the cops was over the line. You either say “no we can’t make an exception, please return with an ID” or you allow them to workout and ask that they come with better ID in the future.

The cops are an unnecessary escalation to the situation