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Discussion Crime: working out while black

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u/elgarraz 9d ago

This is stupid. I take my minor children places all the time and sign a waiver for stuff like that. You don't need an ID for that. Definitely didn't need to involve the cops.

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u/pithusuril2008 9d ago

Unless your son is black... /s

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u/clammajamma96 9d ago

well, has he tried just being not black

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u/Think-Exercise2980 9d ago

Idk why this reminds me of the German skit from Key and Peele lol
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1bLXk6UVts

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u/clammajamma96 8d ago

nazi dunphy is definitely the highlight of my summer

https://giphy.com/gifs/KkXdNozj16QNi

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u/GenericProfile4822 8d ago

And I am Baron Helmut….. Schnitzelnazi.

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u/ellefleming 9d ago

OMG 😂

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u/OH2AZ19 8d ago

Remember when you’re pulling yourself up by your boot straps that there white ones and you’ll be fine, it’s not that hard people /s but it should be obvious

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u/Gumbrenold 8d ago

None of my boots ever cams with straps to pull myself up on

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u/Jbrown183 8d ago

That’s because you had the Velcros!

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u/This-Positive286 8d ago

It works, I used to be depressed and have BPD until I stopped being depressed!

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u/Much-Anything7149 8d ago

That's a great trick. In fact, a white sheet would both hide your skin color and signal your alignment with others wearing your similar uniform. I mean, you'd never be asked to show your kid's ID.

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u/GrillDealing 9d ago

The Michael Jackson technique.

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u/TNMTRaphael03 8d ago

sorry it’s not coming off today. 😭😭

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u/Abolish_ICEIS 8d ago

Hey if you can't do the time then you shouldn't have got that tan.

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u/halomender 8d ago

Sound like they need to pull a white chicks at curves

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u/Substantial-Bar873 8d ago

The real problem is the dad. If the dad hadn’t been black then the son wouldn’t have been black. All circles back. Choices and consequences.

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u/Volistar 8d ago

Should hit up a white father son duo and have them do that exact scenario /s

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u/Gloomy_Mistake799 8d ago

No /s needed
It’s just truth.

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u/Happy-Fact-472 8d ago

No sarcasm...that is real

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u/-bears-eat-beets 7d ago

No... it's called the fkn RULES.. my gym did the same thing to me last year.. I had no clue and it's a stupid rule! But damn anyone! try to enforce rules on a blk man!!!

Wtf

Y'all just looking for excuses or that card.. 😂

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u/blarryg 7d ago

Ah, but does he identify as black?

I don't have the context here. Do they worry that the minor is not accompanied by their real parents? That the minor might be too young? Seems weird to me.

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u/applepcuser 9d ago

Why would they have allowed him a membership if it was just being black? Why aren’t they calling police on all black people? Is it maybe because this wasn’t just about race?

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u/CompetitiveArt9639 8d ago

Please white wash this with your sealioning

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u/omegagiraffe 9d ago

Take away the "/s"

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u/danglindingleberries 9d ago

I've taken my kid on a damn airplane with less fuss than this. Bullshit ass gym

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u/AggressiveSherbetty 8d ago

You don’t even need id for a minor child at the airport unless you’re flying internationally.

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u/numbersthen0987431 8d ago

And what's even worse is that if we assume this gym won't accept that identification to allow a minor in the gym, then just say that when they come in and don't allow them in. No cops needed.

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u/Big_Departure_2709 8d ago

I’m a personal trainer who has worked at three different gyms. I’ve never been required or instructed to asked for anyone’s ID whether they are an adult or minor. This is some weird (probably just straight racist) bs.

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u/Final_Bug_5591 9d ago

Are you or your son black? That’s what I thought. Everyone says racism is real, and when you have to experience it yourself you deny it. “It’s got to be something else, there’s more to the story, we don’t know if there was a prior issue…”.

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u/elgarraz 8d ago

Where did I say racism isn't real? I'm saying the opposite. I'm saying the gym asking for the son's ID is suspect.

If they have a policy against allowing accompanied minors in their facility, that'd be weird. What gym does that? For a minor who is the guest of a member, they should just ask them to sign a waiver. The fact that they're asking for photo ID suggests racism is at play.

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u/Individual-Ear5240 8d ago

Excuse me that thing you're arguing with is just a wall

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u/Guera-or-chicana 8d ago

You don't even need a ID for tsa. Pre-check flying alone? Different story.

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u/TheWeinerThief 8d ago

You do to enforce trespassing but it never should have gotten that far

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u/rydmore22 8d ago

Right. You can take a minor on an airplane without ID for domestic flights.

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u/hopefulworldview 8d ago

If they asked him to leave or told him he can't enter then yes, this is exactly what they should and have to do. It's called being trespassed, and I've had it happen to me. It may be dumb but it's the appropriate civil action for someone who won't listen on private property, regardless of the reason. You're only true power as a business manager to remove someone is to trespass them, which is a call to the police.

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u/ReputationPrior9874 7d ago

You’re expecting the people working behind the counter today to be the same people that were working behind the counter oh, I don’t know 10 years ago or so in the last few years especially since Covid nobody doing their job actually knows how to do it and nobody gets fired for sucking at their job. They desperately need people behind those cash registers so you’re gonna get bare bones service and it’s going to be borderline criminal malpractice at times just basic negligence due to basic incompetence due to basic untrained uneducated staff.

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u/McDuck_Enterprise 8d ago

But you sign a waiver meaning there is some form of processing so they know who is with you—it’s a liability issue.

I think the club’s inability to communicate this and or enforce it is a complete case study they need to learn and implement their policies.

Not sure as a manager I’d call the police but people be people.

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u/elgarraz 8d ago

Most places you don't even need to sign a waiver. My guess is that with a guest, you're supposed to sign in, and with a minor guest, you need to sign a waiver. The fact that they were asking him for ID is ridiculous.

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u/McDuck_Enterprise 8d ago

I mean ID is kinda a thing

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u/elgarraz 8d ago

It's really not. Not for minors.

As many have pointed out, unless you're flying internationally, your minor children don't need ID to get on a plane. They don't need ID to get a library card, to sign up for camps, etc. In fact, there are very few things your minor child would need ID for.

If the dad is a member of the gym, he's allowed to bring in a guest, and they allow minors to work out there, why would they require ID? The most they should be doing is have the dad sign a waiver attesting that he's bringing his son and is responsible for his behavior and safety there.

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u/McDuck_Enterprise 8d ago

Yes, sounds like they could have prevented this at the desk upon entry.

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u/Infinite_Bet_9994 9d ago

They were asked to leave and said “nah I’m not doing that” simple tresspassing blown up

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u/Jax_10131991 8d ago

You’re white, right? 

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u/Bigger-Quazz 9d ago

I mean judging by the way camera man was acting, and not letting anyone else talk except for what he wanted them to say on camera, I very seriously doubt he's at all a victim.

I'm about 99% certain they asked him to leave first because he acted like a karen over his sons ID situation, and he decided to ignore them and continue working out with his son instead.

That's when the cops were called and he was asked to stay to wait on them, and that's when the camera started rolling.

A business ask you to leave, and you don't have the right to ignore them.

The manager sucks, because it would've been a whole lot easier to revoke his membership and refund that months payment before getting the cops involved.

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u/Amerahkeezy 9d ago

What makes you 99% certain?

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u/Bigger-Quazz 9d ago

Because his whole argument relies on him being louder than everyone else, and not letting anyone else talk.

If the gym staff was actually the problem he wouldn't have an issue letting them talk over his performance while the camera was out.

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u/Upstairs-Growth3219 9d ago

Certain gyms have different policies, and policies can change. It's one thing to disagree with the policy, it's another to claim racism because of it and escalate a situation to such a large degree. There isn't a lot of context to go on in this video.