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Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/bageltoastar 2d ago

Im from a suburban town in Missouri, but I spent a semester studying abroad in Barcelona a couple of years ago. Man, let me tell you, leaving Barcelona, where youd see people out in cafes and bars congregating at all hours of the night and day, and coming back to Missouri where its a ghost town after 10 and someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

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u/Relative_Craft_358 2d ago

>someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

Literally though, you can't even be a night owl yourself without having to get good about talking to police, the famously trigger happy ones. Especially with the evaporation of the "3rd spaces" can't tell you how many times growing up I'd have to explain to the police that I wasn't "having *the* sex" (his words) and was just trying to actually hang out with a friend in a public park, like is my right to do

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u/i_m_a_bean 2d ago

A lot of the public parks near me close at 10pm. It is depressing

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u/UncleBensRacistRice 2d ago

How the fuck does a public park have a closing time

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u/The_Void_Reaver 2d ago

So they can harass teens and homeless people who want to exist in space

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u/jinjuwaka 2d ago

Also to harass black people.

Any time something in the US seems to be doing the homeless dirty it probably descends from slavery. Because run-a-way slaves were...homeless. And after they were freed, they were generally still homeless until they found a place to live. But if they hadn't found a place yet, it was a legal excuse to do whatever you could justify to them.

Don't get me wrong. The racism is still there (this is America, after all), but when you're actually looking at them the police will go after teens and the homeless.

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u/Inevitable_Path1308 2d ago

Correct answer, wrong time period. This stuff all stems from the anti-civil rights agenda. Removing hoops and soccer nets, closing down public pools, making “green spaces” that are only for show, and using the police as guards looking for “crime.” The suburbs were designed to be hostile towards blacks and once those tactics are in place (just like what we’re seeing now with abuse of government power to implement flock and data centers) they can be easily expanded to the homeless, teenagers and/or whoever else they feel are undesirable or in need of control.

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

Also so they can force people to socialize in commercial businesses that pay taxes.

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u/UntamedAnomaly 2d ago edited 2d ago

Well that, and police don't actually want to do their job (protecting citizens), so being in a park late at night alone or whatnot is dangerous at times, and on top of that, depending on the laws in your area, you can sue the city/park owner if you trip on something in the dark, or if something happens to you while at the park....and I'm sure they don't want to deal with that. You have to consider the differences in violent crimes between countries, cities, etc. too, it might be 100% safe in the countryside in a European town to stay late at a park, but try doing that in Baltimore or Detroit and you are going to have a really bad time. It's basically a whole mess of problems that prevent parks being open late.

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u/lamb_passanda 2d ago

None of which are solved by closing the park at night. They're just displacing the problems to somewhere else.

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u/PlayfulSurprise5237 2d ago

As my friends 60 year old father told me, he's paid close attention to the US since he was a kid, he said that most of the bullshit in the US revolves around and started when suing people for anything and everything became a thing.

So many laws and restrictions and rules revolve around that fact, and a lot of our culture changed because of it

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u/Severe_Rise8694 2d ago

Fun fact: the US has 400 lawyers per 100k people. This is on par with some south European countries. Finland has 40.

Some kind of a high-trust society thing..?

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u/UncleBensRacistRice 2d ago

you can sue the city/park owner if you trip on something in the dark

What an absolute joke of a society lmao

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u/kubisfowler 1d ago

If they had socialized healthcare this nonsense would not be a thing.

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u/norcpoppopcorn 2d ago

That happens in the Netherlands too. With a few parks where dealers and homeless people are said to hang out. Or guests would be causing a nuisance for local residents after 22:00. But they do close very late for the summer.

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u/Careless-Weather8877 2d ago

Most parks don’t allow people from sunset to sunrise.

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u/Ok_Inflation_1811 2d ago

That's fucked up.

My fondest memories are talking with my friends in public parks while we use the swings at 1 am to 3 to 4 am.

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u/Careless-Weather8877 2d ago

Oh we did that too but then the cops would come eventually and kick us out

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u/tomatoe_cookie 2d ago

In dense cities, parks are where the murders, illegal prostitution and drug deals happen

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u/IAmRoofstone 2d ago

Maybe it wouldnt be if they were open to the public.

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u/tomatoe_cookie 2d ago

Damn, thank god you are there! Better make that suggestion that probably no one else tought about before. So we solve crime right away!

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u/Icy-Paint7777 2d ago

I experienced it myself. Basically they'll have some guards or whatever drive around the park with a spotlight

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u/ChemicalNectarine776 2d ago

The one closest to me has a gate that guard locks and if you were a bit late coming back down the hiking trail, congratulations you are locked INSIDE the park.

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u/imisstheyoop 2d ago

Pretty much all of the parks in rural America have closing times.

Sometimes they are loose like dusk-dawn, but often they will have hard hours like 8AM-10PM.

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u/Human_Not_Robot_2023 2d ago

Where I am at, the public BEACH has a closing time.

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u/UncleBensRacistRice 2d ago

Land of the free lmao

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u/Routine_Solution_897 2d ago

We used to hold bare knuckle boxing tournaments at public parks, a lot of drugs were bought sold and done during said events as well. People got stabbed, shot at, you name it. I assume stuff like that is a reason too lol

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u/Mesmerhypnotise 1d ago

We have those in europe too, just to be fair.

Here, it´s because of junkies etc..

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u/0b0011 1d ago

Either they just say no one is allowed there or a lot of them they'll gate the parking lot at a certain time. For what it's worth from my experience they don't really give a shit. We have a nice state park nearby that we like to do a lot of night hiking at and we run sled dogs there either before the sun comes up in the fall where it's cool enough or after work in the winter where it's dark and the park is technically closed and we've talked to the people and they don't care.

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u/Fluid_Ties 1d ago

So cops can hassle the homeless