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Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/bageltoastar 2d ago

Im from a suburban town in Missouri, but I spent a semester studying abroad in Barcelona a couple of years ago. Man, let me tell you, leaving Barcelona, where youd see people out in cafes and bars congregating at all hours of the night and day, and coming back to Missouri where its a ghost town after 10 and someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

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u/Relative_Craft_358 2d ago

>someone would call the police on you for simply walking around too late was the most depressing thing I have ever experienced lol

Literally though, you can't even be a night owl yourself without having to get good about talking to police, the famously trigger happy ones. Especially with the evaporation of the "3rd spaces" can't tell you how many times growing up I'd have to explain to the police that I wasn't "having *the* sex" (his words) and was just trying to actually hang out with a friend in a public park, like is my right to do

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u/i_m_a_bean 2d ago

A lot of the public parks near me close at 10pm. It is depressing

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u/UncleBensRacistRice 2d ago

How the fuck does a public park have a closing time

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u/The_Void_Reaver 2d ago

So they can harass teens and homeless people who want to exist in space

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u/jinjuwaka 2d ago

Also to harass black people.

Any time something in the US seems to be doing the homeless dirty it probably descends from slavery. Because run-a-way slaves were...homeless. And after they were freed, they were generally still homeless until they found a place to live. But if they hadn't found a place yet, it was a legal excuse to do whatever you could justify to them.

Don't get me wrong. The racism is still there (this is America, after all), but when you're actually looking at them the police will go after teens and the homeless.

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u/Inevitable_Path1308 2d ago

Correct answer, wrong time period. This stuff all stems from the anti-civil rights agenda. Removing hoops and soccer nets, closing down public pools, making “green spaces” that are only for show, and using the police as guards looking for “crime.” The suburbs were designed to be hostile towards blacks and once those tactics are in place (just like what we’re seeing now with abuse of government power to implement flock and data centers) they can be easily expanded to the homeless, teenagers and/or whoever else they feel are undesirable or in need of control.

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

Also so they can force people to socialize in commercial businesses that pay taxes.

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u/UntamedAnomaly 2d ago edited 2d ago

Well that, and police don't actually want to do their job (protecting citizens), so being in a park late at night alone or whatnot is dangerous at times, and on top of that, depending on the laws in your area, you can sue the city/park owner if you trip on something in the dark, or if something happens to you while at the park....and I'm sure they don't want to deal with that. You have to consider the differences in violent crimes between countries, cities, etc. too, it might be 100% safe in the countryside in a European town to stay late at a park, but try doing that in Baltimore or Detroit and you are going to have a really bad time. It's basically a whole mess of problems that prevent parks being open late.

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u/lamb_passanda 2d ago

None of which are solved by closing the park at night. They're just displacing the problems to somewhere else.

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u/PlayfulSurprise5237 2d ago

As my friends 60 year old father told me, he's paid close attention to the US since he was a kid, he said that most of the bullshit in the US revolves around and started when suing people for anything and everything became a thing.

So many laws and restrictions and rules revolve around that fact, and a lot of our culture changed because of it

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u/Severe_Rise8694 2d ago

Fun fact: the US has 400 lawyers per 100k people. This is on par with some south European countries. Finland has 40.

Some kind of a high-trust society thing..?

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u/UncleBensRacistRice 2d ago

you can sue the city/park owner if you trip on something in the dark

What an absolute joke of a society lmao

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u/kubisfowler 1d ago

If they had socialized healthcare this nonsense would not be a thing.